Title: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on May 31, 2006, 09:26:02 PM i had to go into hospital last week for tests.
just got the results back 2 days ago. here goes i was`nt going to tell anyone only close relatives. results was i have lung cancer. this has been one ov the worst years ov my life. what with one thing @ another. the thing about this is at least i will be the happiest man on earth when i walk my daughter rachel down the isle on the 22nd of july. got to go back to hospitall next week to find out what they are going to do this is the 3rd time iv had cancer (lymphoma ov the glands hodgkins desease) 14 years ago ,@ a tumor removed 16 months ago i beat them soim determind to beat this . i hope you dont mind me putting this on here as i feel you lot are my m8. vinni Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: RED-DOG on May 31, 2006, 09:29:06 PM Good luck Barry, we will be with you every step of the way.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Heid on May 31, 2006, 09:29:59 PM So sorry to hear your news, mate. You've beaten it before, you can do it again. We're all behind ya.
Take care you you, eh? Heid xx Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on May 31, 2006, 09:30:46 PM thx red you know me i wont lie down ,
this thing will know its been in a fight Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: RED-DOG on May 31, 2006, 09:32:43 PM thx red you know me i wont lie down , this thing will know its been in a fight If anyone can do it Baz, you can. Please keep us posted Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Royal Flush on May 31, 2006, 09:32:52 PM Sorry earlier Barry i didnt say much on the phone, i was just in shock.
I really do wish you the best and knowing you the cancer wont know whats hit it when u have had a go! if there is anything you need m8 i am here. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Sark79 on May 31, 2006, 09:35:01 PM Very sorry to hear about that mate. I hope your treatment goes well and you get back healthy again soon. Best wishes
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Tonji on May 31, 2006, 09:38:46 PM So sorry to hear that Barry, keep fighting mate. Many best wishes.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Colchester Kev on May 31, 2006, 09:39:04 PM I have been in shock since Barry told me this news a few days ago ... I'm glad you have posted on here baz, we ARE your mates and you know that we will do whatever we can to help you get through this... FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT, if anyone can do it, YOU CAN !!!
All the very best big fella. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Wardonkey on May 31, 2006, 09:55:28 PM Good luck Barry.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: NoflopsHomer on May 31, 2006, 09:59:30 PM All the best sir.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Claw75 on May 31, 2006, 10:00:47 PM sorry to hear your news, but sounds like you've got a fantastic attitude, which is the first step towards beating it. All the best, and lots of love xx
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: marcro on May 31, 2006, 10:03:00 PM Always keep those positive thoughts going - the power of positive thinking goes a long way in the fight you are about to embark on and win!
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: LukieD on May 31, 2006, 10:05:18 PM Sorry to hear mate, I wish you all the best and hope you can make a quick recovery.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: londonpokergirl on May 31, 2006, 10:10:16 PM You've fought it twice , you can do it a 3rd time :0)
Speedy recovery lovey x Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: bobby1 on May 31, 2006, 10:13:47 PM bloody hell mate. I hope it goes well.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Karabiner on May 31, 2006, 10:18:44 PM Damn Barry, keep fighting is all I can say.
You know that we'll all be fighting with you and hopefully you can beat the devil. All the very best of luck. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Dingdell on May 31, 2006, 10:22:14 PM Absolutely gutted for you - and speechless.
Big kiss when I see you next, keep that positive attitude - and you'll win again! Tracey :-* Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: bhoywonder on May 31, 2006, 10:26:10 PM sorry to hear
and good luck thoughts are with you and the family Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: snoopy1239 on May 31, 2006, 10:30:59 PM All the best...
;goodluck; Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: gatso on May 31, 2006, 10:32:03 PM so sorry Barry.
remember you've always got support on here if you need it, just post away. we're all behind you as you fight the bugger Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Sheriff Fatman on May 31, 2006, 10:35:55 PM Best wishes Barry. Sounds like you have the right attitude to beat this thing again.
Sheriff Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on May 31, 2006, 10:47:00 PM oh im going to beat it dont worry about that.
thx for all the good will mesages,i know i can beat this with you lot behind me once again thx Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Jim-D on May 31, 2006, 10:59:09 PM I am truely sorry to hear this pal.
Wish you all the very best in the future. We will do our very best to keep ya spirits up!! Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: jezza777 on May 31, 2006, 11:45:23 PM Wishing you the very best.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: dik9 on June 01, 2006, 12:03:09 AM Beat the Crap out out of it and give it a dig from me!!!
Keep your strength up and your mind focused, get your daughter down the Isle, then attack it head on. All the best. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Robert HM on June 01, 2006, 12:08:00 AM Barry, though I have yet to meet you, your character shines through this forum and on the times I saw you on 425, keep up the fight and show it you can't be beat. I WILL meet you sometime and the first pint is on me.
Robert Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: charmaine on June 01, 2006, 12:41:50 AM Dont know what to say Barry cept good luck , like everyones said , you've beat it twice you know you can do it again .
Best wishes Charmaine and Paul xx Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: The Baron on June 01, 2006, 12:47:05 AM My thoughts are with you Barry.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: DTD-ACES on June 01, 2006, 01:05:22 AM Hi Barry
There i was browsing the forum when i saw your post and felt compelled to write. I don't know you personally but if writing here and getting positive feedback is going to help you beat this awful disease then please count me as one of your mates. Any time you're feeling down post here and all us Blondes will soon cheer you up , for now focus on your daughters wedding and how happy she will be that you are there to give her away. Good luck next week at the hospital. All the best ACES Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on June 01, 2006, 01:59:20 AM cheers guys ,dont know what to say but thx ,
isnt it wonderfull when people youve never met are your strengh robert sorry m8 but when we meet its tea for me as i dont drink. cheers charmain thx simon im sure youll ll be seeing me about this year @ next Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Robert HM on June 01, 2006, 02:12:20 AM Pot of Earl Grey it is then
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: jezza777 on June 01, 2006, 02:17:03 AM Tetley surley?
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: tikay on June 01, 2006, 02:39:34 AM blonde are with you Barry, not right behind you, but right alongside you. Keep the Posts coming, it's our fight as well as yours. 2 down, 1 to go. You've shared your problem - challenge, sorry - with us, so now it's our challenge as well. You gotta keep us updated. Always remember this. "My name is Barry Neville from Sheffield. What the **** are you?" xx Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on June 01, 2006, 05:30:06 AM lol tony thx
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: I KNOW IT on June 01, 2006, 05:30:51 AM So sorry to hear the awful news Barry, We are with you all the way in fighting this ,
Keep yourself positive and you'll beat this condition hands down. all the best Craig Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: thetank on June 01, 2006, 08:47:38 AM I couldn't agree more with what everyone else has said.
Your attitude is the best as far as beaing this horrible thing goes. I am realy sorry to hear the news, but have every confidence that you can fight the good fight. Good luck, I know it's a fight you can win, but a little luck on your side can't hurt. That's why my fingers are crossed for you. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: littlemissC on June 01, 2006, 09:37:17 AM good luck in your fight,im sure you eill beat it.enjoy your daughters wedding.
franxxxxxx Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: ariston on June 01, 2006, 11:25:30 AM dont know how I have only just spotted this. If you have beat lymphoma then lung cancer will be a doddle for you mate.
Good luck Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Poppet7 on June 01, 2006, 12:37:21 PM Sorry to hear your news, good luck in your fight against it.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Trace on June 01, 2006, 12:39:22 PM Hiya Barry luv
I've only just seen this too. What a bas**** huh? I've only known you a short while m8, but by God has this nasty little disease met it's match. You can beat it and you will beat it, and you know we are with you all the way. Keep strong chuck! Trace xxxxxx Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: The_nun on June 01, 2006, 12:40:07 PM Only just seen it too Barry, I know only too well how supportive this forum can be and it truly does help keep you afloat when you need it most..As you know my mum in law was diagnosed when we were in Blackpool last month so I know what you and your family must be going through. Always here Love Maureen...
and don't forget , I will always save a bit of Bitty just for to help keep your strength up..XX Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Mr F on June 01, 2006, 12:42:38 PM Sorry to hear this Barry.
I'm another one of the unlucky people who hasn't met you as yet. I know you don't need to be told this but keep your head up and stay positive. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: AlrightJack on June 01, 2006, 12:46:47 PM I was also rather shocked when I found out. Barry, I know you can beat this. You never lie down and take it, so this won't be any different. See you soon mate.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: ericstoner on June 01, 2006, 01:28:08 PM can I just add, my thoughts will also be with you at this time.
Keep those you love close, share all your trials, face this thing head on,remember people will be on your team,when you feel down. I may also not have met you as yet, though i'm hoping that can be overcome at BB3,if your there. But there seems to be a lot of people on our site who have a great respect for you. I echo their comments, Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: TightEnd on June 01, 2006, 01:35:20 PM All the best Barry, I was shocked when I heard but I know what a big man and how determined you are and please keep us in touch as you beat this.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Mango99 on June 01, 2006, 01:53:14 PM Good luck Barry.
Think I may have met you at The Western, but it's hard to tell from the small photo... Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Chili on June 01, 2006, 02:12:22 PM So sorry Barry to hear your news. Anyone that knows you will be sure to know that you will kick this disease into touch.
My thoughts and hopes are with you m8. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: booder on June 01, 2006, 02:23:06 PM i pity this disease.....it picked the wrong guy to mess with
... all the very best to you bazza Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Gamblor21 on June 01, 2006, 02:54:37 PM I can only echo what has already been said... got a big shock when barry phoned to tell me! I know he will beat this, and once he does all the magnums he wants are on me!
Goodluck! Ian Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Card_Shark on June 01, 2006, 03:02:55 PM Hi barry, its steve from notts/lincoln i tried ringing you but you must have a new mobile. Give me a call if ya get the chance mate.
Sorry to hear about the horrible news, speak to ya soon mate. good luck big fella.....steve read Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Indestructable on June 01, 2006, 06:27:44 PM Keep your chin up sure you can beat it.
:)up Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: MPOWER on June 01, 2006, 08:08:15 PM Another of lives Challanges I'm sure you will beat.
Best of Luck. regards M Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: TheJagster on June 01, 2006, 09:49:48 PM ditto all the other messages of support.
Good Luck .....you'll beat this! Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on June 06, 2006, 11:02:17 PM been to the hospitall ,they told me i have to go back on the 14th june .
cant tell you any more except its either kemo or radio therapy. chins still up Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: redimp on June 06, 2006, 11:11:54 PM Only just seen this
My thoughts are with you and your family Take care Shelly xxx Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Sark79 on June 06, 2006, 11:55:49 PM been to the hospitall ,they told me i have to go back on the 14th june . cant tell you any more except its either kemo or radio therapy. chins still up Best wishes for you mate Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Delboy on June 07, 2006, 12:07:12 AM Best of Luck Barry
I'm sure you'll beat this.. Del Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: RED-DOG on June 07, 2006, 01:12:36 AM Good luck Barry
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on June 07, 2006, 01:19:27 AM cheers you lot, this makes a big difference ith you lot behind me,
thx guys Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: Robert HM on June 07, 2006, 01:21:38 AM Fingers and toes crossed big guy
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: AndSoItGoes on June 07, 2006, 11:18:48 AM Barry, im more sorry than i could ever express for your news.Im sure you will beat it,they make em so tough up there.
Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: b4matt on June 07, 2006, 03:24:04 PM Wow... so sorry to hear your news mate. It only seems five minutues ago we where on the plane back from Dublin. I tried your mobile, i assume you've got a new number.
I really hope all goes well mate, keep in touch big lad. Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: matt674 on June 07, 2006, 03:42:03 PM Only just read this post, something to do with the title putting me off probably - monkeys dont take bad news too well!
I can only echo everyone elses sentiments in wishing you a speedy recovery, i know what you and you're family must be going through at this time as i lost my mother to lung cancer five years ago. Keeping my monkey fingers crossed for you ;goodluck; Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: vinni on June 07, 2006, 09:39:31 PM cheers guys ,thanks for the good will mesages
cheers for the call this morning mat . Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: ripple11 on June 07, 2006, 09:57:28 PM Wishing you a very speedy recovery, best of luck Nick Title: Re: bad news everyday Post by: wormster on June 08, 2006, 02:58:56 AM Good to see you in Dublin & glad to interview you on Poker425 big fella - fingers crossed for a speedy recovery
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