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Title: Motivation.........?
Post by: ItsMrAlex2u on April 12, 2008, 08:35:08 PM
Having played now for a good few years through good spells and bad (many bad spells!) I have never before struggled with motivation to play. Even on horrible downsiwngs I still come back the following day fully refreshed and ready to do battle again.
However over the last few weeks I am just struggling to get motivated to play. I am not even on a bad run, I just dont seem to have the enthusiasm at the moment. Its not a case of having any thoughts of wanting to quit or anything I just dont quite know what to do.

I just wondered if any of you have been through a simllar spell?

The game just seems to be boring me at the moment!

Am I ill?????????

Help !!!


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: littlemissC on April 12, 2008, 08:50:12 PM
take a break

thats the only advise i can give..i had an awfull november,december and january and lost any thrill i had for the game.
i do recall one time standing outside dtd SCREAMING im never playing this stupid game again,lol

i took 2 weeks off and felt fresh again when i came back..since then i have had the best few months ever for me.now whenever im feeling anoyed with how ive played or just not feeling like playing i just dont.

hope it comes back for you

FRAN

x


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Solver on April 12, 2008, 09:17:07 PM
Happend to me, was playing pretty much part time for 3 years and then all of a sudden lost motivation and just played the odd home game here and there.  No real reason for it whatsoever.

Two years later I caught the bug again.  All I can so is just don't try to analyze it, just go with it (unless it's your living in which case just take a short break).


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Royal Flush on April 12, 2008, 09:38:42 PM
In the latter half of 2007 i did very well in poker, so at the start of 2008 i took a break, went on a few holidays etc the problem is since then i just cant get back into poker. This is obviously a slight problem when you play full time!


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: PocketLady on April 12, 2008, 10:21:54 PM
Have to say I'm feeling very similar myself at the moment.  I had a very bad run between Nov and Feb but it did pick up for a little while but that hasn't lasted long.  Although I don't like losing I've become too indifferent and even used to it and I don't look forward to play at all at the moment.  When I do play I just drag myself to the computer or down to my local casino because I just don't have the motivation to get up off my bum and make the effort.  I fully intend to take a break at some point, but it's difficult because I do play full time and I won't really know what to do with myself!  But yeah, take a break is probably the best thing you can do.


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: cia260895 on April 13, 2008, 12:11:13 AM
Take a break for a month then sat into wsop that'll get u revving again m8  :)up


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: portfolio on April 13, 2008, 12:36:25 AM
Having played now for a good few years through good spells and bad (many bad spells!) I have never before struggled with motivation to play. Even on horrible downsiwngs I still come back the following day fully refreshed and ready to do battle again.
However over the last few weeks I am just struggling to get motivated to play. I am not even on a bad run, I just dont seem to have the enthusiasm at the moment. Its not a case of having any thoughts of wanting to quit or anything I just dont quite know what to do.

I just wondered if any of you have been through a simllar spell?

The game just seems to be boring me at the moment!

Am I ill?????????

Help !!!


ill  no    older+wiser   perhaps.

currently on a   2month break, my first in 8 years.

if it comes back , all well and good,
if not   enjoy what life has to offer.

gl

from an old foe


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: ItsMrAlex2u on April 13, 2008, 07:58:57 AM
In the latter half of 2007 i did very well in poker, so at the start of 2008 i took a break, went on a few holidays etc the problem is since then i just cant get back into poker. This is obviously a slight problem when you play full time!

This is probably similar to my situation. This current mood isnt down to a run of badb beats, i just cant be arsed ! Got married in March and had a 3 week honeymoon (shameless brag) and since then just cant be bothered to sit at cash tables for hours on end !

I am sure it will come back. WTF else am I going to do otherwise LoL !!!

Maybe a switch to tourns for a while to try and get the buzz again as cash play is bl00dy boring !!!


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: nirvana on April 13, 2008, 09:34:52 AM
interesting thread I think - i regularly take longish breaks from online and only average out as maybe once a month live. as a hobby player that's fine.

When I come back I normally play quite well, spin a coupla hundred up to a coupla thou, then start getting bored, decide to try and spin it up even faster, donk it off then quit for a while again.

If I stuck to a few key MTT's a week I think I'd maintain a real enjoyment of the online game and that's what I thiink i'll try to do

Flushy - i'm worried about you, you're gonna starve man :-)


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: RED-DOG on April 13, 2008, 09:39:16 AM
I have no problem with motivation, it's ability that I struggle with


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: ItsMrAlex2u on April 13, 2008, 09:50:24 AM
I have no problem with motivation, it's ability that I struggle with
LoL


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Royal Flush on April 13, 2008, 09:59:11 AM
The problem is now when i do play i just lose, i really don't want to play!

It's a $1k a day habit!


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Rooky9 on April 13, 2008, 10:20:20 AM
The problem is now when i do play i just lose, i really don't want to play!

It's a $1k a day habit!

Get a proper job!


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: madasahatstand on April 13, 2008, 11:03:57 AM
Maybe your mind is on the important things in life Alex, like your new wife and wedding pictures? lol  I would take a break if you can pull yourself away and the craving will likely return:)


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: ItsMrAlex2u on April 13, 2008, 11:08:07 AM
Maybe your mind is on the important things in life Alex, like the champions league semi finals? lol  I would take a break if you can pull yourself away and the craving will likely return:)
Possibly !


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: DaveShoelace on April 13, 2008, 11:16:16 AM
Play something new, like PLO or Stud. A change is as good as a rest, be the fish for a while and learn the ropes at HORSE or someink.



Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: ItsMrAlex2u on April 13, 2008, 11:25:55 AM
Funny you should say that, been playing PLO all morning. Bit more entertaining, give it a shot Flushy!!


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Dingdell on April 13, 2008, 01:10:09 PM
Play something new, like PLO or Stud. A change is as good as a rest, be the fish for a while and learn the ropes at HORSE or someink.

Agreed. It's got me inspired again and it's improved my hold em game.


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Royal Flush on April 13, 2008, 03:24:20 PM
Funny you should say that, been playing PLO all morning. Bit more entertaining, give it a shot Flushy!!

It's what i usually play! d'oh!

Actually had some sick sessions of late, dropped right down to 1-2 and decided to just play super lag. My last 600 hands or so i am up 13 buyins!

Could this be a turn for the better?

Prob not.....lol still can't play for more than 90 mins at a time.


The problem is now when i do play i just lose, i really don't want to play!

It's a $1k a day habit!

Get a proper job!

Got any work going?


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Pyso on April 13, 2008, 04:19:16 PM
I'm going through this at the moment but with golf, not poker. I am still technically a golf professional  but have absolutely no desire to play. Even watching the Masters is leaving me cold. I've even got myself another job!

The only answer is to take a break. Only come back if you really start to miss it. Don't beat yourself up about it - everything is as it is for a reason!

You actually just sound like you have poker in the proper perspective.

Good Luck


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Rooky9 on April 13, 2008, 04:20:34 PM

The problem is now when i do play i just lose, i really don't want to play!

It's a $1k a day habit!

Get a proper job!

Got any work going?

http://www.touch-aviation.com/details.asp?vacId=192&vt=Flight%20Instructor%20Fixed%20Wing%20-%20Touring

Just put the hours thye want on the CV....


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: mondatoo on April 13, 2008, 11:19:39 PM
I must admit i'm also feeling like this at the moment i love playing poker and always will i believe but just nothings going right at the moment.Think i may stop playing holdem altogther 4 a few weeks like a couple of u r suggesting may start playing omaha hilo a really like the game.When i'm playing holdem sngs i find myself just fannying around on the web(not including blonde as fannying around of course).Maybe it would help if i start multi tabling as i only play 1 table at a time i may try playing 4 very low stake sngs at same time and see how i manage with it.GL with refinding your passion for the game m8.


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: Royal Flush on April 14, 2008, 12:50:56 PM

The problem is now when i do play i just lose, i really don't want to play!

It's a $1k a day habit!

Get a proper job!

Got any work going?

http://www.touch-aviation.com/details.asp?vacId=192&vt=Flight%20Instructor%20Fixed%20Wing%20-%20Touring

Just put the hours thye want on the CV....

bah


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: ItsMrAlex2u on April 14, 2008, 06:20:48 PM

The problem is now when i do play i just lose, i really don't want to play!

It's a $1k a day habit!

Get a proper job!

Got any work going?

http://www.touch-aviation.com/details.asp?vacId=192&vt=Flight%20Instructor%20Fixed%20Wing%20-%20Touring

Just put the hours thye want on the CV....

bah

meh


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: stallyon on April 15, 2008, 01:20:34 PM
take a break

what? the magazine full of shocking stories and inane crossword puzzles? surely that'll just dull him out even more LOL


Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: ItsMrAlex2u on April 24, 2008, 10:14:51 PM
The situation continues.... just not enjoying the game lately.

I have been playing for badbeat for just coming up to a year and the constant cash grind is not for me. I fell in love with the game because of tournaments and hardly play any these days.

I am going to quit badbeat and try and get my game back together. That has fallen apart too now after this shitty period.



Title: Re: Motivation.........?
Post by: lucky_scrote on April 25, 2008, 03:00:12 AM
I played 30k hands in 2 weeks and now that I hit the sickest downswing ever and giving back half of what I earned in a few k hands I really can't be arsed any more.
I'm getting very drunk this weekend to forget about it because I was getting very bored of having set over set!