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I have been asked if i could find some (or any) women players that are finding that they are getting into debt due to poker, Obviously I do not expect you to post your names on this thread, but if you are in this situation and are willing to talk to a very nice lady for some research, could you please send me a PM. Any persons name that PM's me will be kept private.

Many Thanks  :)

Jane xx

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Why is it that all documentary's on poker seem to concentrate on the negative aspect, ie people getting into debt, turning youngsters into compulsive gamblers etc..  Annoys me a bit.

I agree with WelChef, the media pounce on any opportunity to show poker in a bad light

Next thing you know we will have groups of 'never done anything exiciting in there lives' do gooders lobbying the government to put a stop to this terrible activity that ruins lives

I agree. I was also approached about that money programme that Ginger did but decided against it as I was worried they would go out of their way to show poker in a bad light. the researcher was particularly interested in my biggest loses and if I knew anyone whod lost large ammounts. Doesn't sound very balanced if they're specifically looking for losing players.

Same for the betting shops, if you decide to walk through that door you have to be prepared lose and the same for poker, I blame the individual rather than the companys.

I guess they concentrate on the losses to warn people that you can end up in severe debt.  It's easy to get carried away and people need to be made aware of the dangers.  To show all the people that have made money all the time would encourage more to play and for someone to win a million at poker it's cost someone else (or a multiple of people) that million.

Better to put of than promote all the time imho.

Thats fine untill the government decide to protect us to death

I am not allowed to photograph my own grandkids nativety play in case I'm a peadophile

The childeren aren't allowed to run in school incase they fall and hurt themselves

I cant swim in the lake I swam in as a child because I might drown

I can't watch someone repair my car in a garage in case I get hurt

I can't carry the pocket knife I have had all my life

Etc etc etc

Don't give them the ammunition

I agree Silo, IMO it's wrong to show only the golden days of playing, because for the great majority that simply isn't the way it is. For every SINGLE winner, there are handfuls of losers, and to paint it differently is unfair to those thinking about giving the game a spin. There are tournaments on television often, and the stories are never shown of the down side, only the big win at the end, these sort of shows are needed to balance it out.

There are far more losers than winners, and that is a FACT, what is the point in pretending to be an Ostrich?

I agree that we are a bit over protected, go to other countries around the world and the standards are way lower but I think with the poker, there are enough programs showing the successful side of the game.

You only have to tune in to a poker program and someone is sitting there with thousands of dollars.  They dont show all the people that pay a couple of thousand to enter a tourney but go out before the money, they just show the winners.  A couple of objective programs showing the perils of gambling debts is a good thing in my opinion.

Yeah stuff like that is just getting out of control, but that's another debate.  My point was poker related.

When i read stuff like this it makes me fear for the game and the players..Do you really think poker players are going to be watching this garbage and thinking wow i better not continue playing. NO....

The only people who will watch stuff like this is the bible bashers and people with power, who will then take it upon themselfs to climb up on their soap box and save everyone...

I hope the show is Compensating you well for your Involvement

No involvement from myself Bundle, they got in touch with me purely as a previous contact of theirs. I said I would see what I could do but TBH I don't think many people would want to admit that they are having a serious bad run (which I have also told the producer).

I don't think that the odd program here and there is going to be detrimental to anyone, and this is not a fictional side of poker that doesn't exist, it is a very real problem for some people. For some people it is an addiction, no matter how bad it is for them, they can't stop. Look at smoking ( not a great example as it is bad for anyone, full stop, i grant that) just because so many of us smokers enjoy it, should they remove the warning of the packet? It is as bad for our health as poker is to some players bank balances.

P.s..... lets NOT start a " it's nothing like smoking" diversion, it was the first thing that came into my head lol

 rotflmfao rotflmfao Hey i aint about to start anything with anyone, I see what you are saying. I just hate giving the government ammunition

There is an argument that the warnings on the packets should be removed as they are "statistically" correct but factually incorrect.

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I'm reading this thread whilst listening to the news that Cadbury's are putting 'Health Warnings' on chocolate bars.

and I still chuckle at 'Warning contents might be hot' on cups of coffee after that woman successfully sued Maccie D's

Sorry Ginger...bit off topic. For what its worth I enjoyed the show you participated in and actually thought that it was relatively well balanced.

If the new show has any sponsorship attached I'd be happy to wear a skirt!

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Isn't it about time they exposed the real dangers of The National Lottery and scratchcards ?

I mean these really target people who cannot afford to gamble with massive advertising budgets.

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Drive through any poorer arear and the only thing that seems to survive are the fruit machines arcards
and the shop that sells the lotto, people want to gamble this way for a quick rush. I bet if this type of gambler
were made to stop playing instant win games i.e Lotto, fruit Machines etc and made to play poker they would die of
boredam. Also the Govement will never support poker because there aren't  any tax implications. Only the players are in
a win/lose situation.   

I think this will make a very interesting programme and I think the dangerous of getting into serious debt SHOULD be highlighted.

I learnt to play poker online, for a long time I played on the play tables mostly to chat and have a laugh, I promised myself NEVER to play for cash but as I won more and more on play tables I thought why not give it a go.

I started on $1 stts and found I either did really well or bombed out early. I realise now I was playing like a complete fish but still I was winning and didn't care.

A friend took me aside and showed me how to play "properly", he told me that I didnt have to play every hand, only to play in position, with good hands etc and this is where it all went badly wrong.

I folded my 7/2 os to see it hit a full house, my 6/8 to see it hit a straight etc and i went on tilt BIG TIME loosing game after game then going higher stake to try and win back my losses which of course I would loose. My confidence went completely to the stage I was scared to play a hand and I realised it was time to give up and cut my losses.

That was when I found blonde...i spent hours reading the hand analysis threads trying to learn from each one. I have found out where a lot of good freerolls are and day by day I get a little bit better but more to the point im not spending money i cant afford.

I didn't get into debt playing poker because I think when you have kids there is a line you HAVE to draw. Had I been single with no responsibilities it might have been very different.

Yes I feel guilty thinking I should have spent the money on my kids but poker is a learning curve and hopefully one day I will get back what I have put in.....

.......but lets face it....once you are hooked you are well and truely HOOKED