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Should it be banned?

Definitely not but I'd feel equally strongly that it should never be done. There might be the odd good spot for some comedy with it I guess but never ever wolf whistle feels like the optimal line.

Well I have to admit that I have done it in the past. I think I would be scared to do it in the future though.

I think I would like it if I was a girl but perhaps that's because I'm a slapper.



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Benny Hill would be turning in his grave if he knew how the world has become.

Benny Hill was pretty dated when I was a kid, and I am nearly as old as Tikay.  Not sure he'd be the best person to make a judgement on where the line should be drawn

Should be encouraged.....since you aren’t allowed to do anything else it seems!

At my trainers owners day last week i was looking at my horse and said out loud "you are a beauty" the woman standing the other side said "well thank you" did not have the heart to tell her i was talking about the horse.

soon you wont be able to shake somebody's hand or kiss them on the cheek

what length of time does a handshake become an innuendo - answers on a postcard   

Beats me why anyone would want to disrespect themselves with this gross action, never mind the lack of respect for the object of it.

I bet you're great fun at a party.

My colleague just said "where will all this PC stuff end, most women view it as a compliment."

What's next on the agenda for being out of order, chatting up a girl in a bar?

If you greet women with a hug and a kiss make sure you do the same to men otherwise you will be sexist!

Women the world over will be falling apart with insecurity when no man dares compliment them in the future..

'hi ..can i buy you a drink ' will now be viewed as a prelude to rape and the villain arrested on the spot..

I saw a poll on tv not so long ago which asked women what they thought of wolf whistles.. majority secretly liked it... perhaps we should ask the people it affects before the thought police decide for us

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This stuff isn't rocket science is it? Do you think the target of your action is going to appreciate it? Context is everything. The trouble is that to work this out you need social skills. If you don't know or can't guess well don't do it.

If you are planning on wolf whistling at a random stranger I'd say enough women would be upset or intimidated rather than see it as flattery, so you shouldn't do it as you don't have any other information to go on.

If you are planning on complimenting someone on their appearance, some people will like it and some won't, so you need to know who you are talking to. If you are planning on doing it anyway then complaining when the subject of your comment doesn't like it, then why would you want to give a compliment that someone doesn't like? I think you need to admit that you are doing it for your own reasons rather than because you want to be nice at this point.

Isn't it strange that 10% of women aged between 18-24 think a man asking them out for a drink is sexual harassment?

Isn't there a chance the baby is being thrown out with the bath water?

Perhaps the younger generation will just meet more and more online.

I was talking to a woman last week, and she firmly believed the only acceptable place for a man and a woman to meet was online.

Incredible.  How old was she?

What every great party needs is a bunch of old blokes slapping women's arses and wolf whistling. 

Sure MintTrav would be fine at your average party. 

Where did you meet her?

I think this has been in all the tory manifesto’s since blackadders time.

Seems to be the norm now.

Dangerous territory though. Plenty of men looking to exploit vulnerable women on those sites from the women and men I've spoken to. Maybe it's the older divorced women that are more susceptible to guys just looking to get laid. I spoke to one guy last week who is 63 and single. He just wants to shag as many women as possible. Happy to use and abuse. His "golden" advice is to ask plenty of questions to look interested and tell them how gorgeous they are. Awful.

Late 20s, maybe 30 at a push.

She is the new girlfriend of a mate

This is all very one sided - men get unsolicited advances from women -

There's been people talking a load of rubbish to get laid long before electricity, let alone the internet.

Yeah, cos that works all the time doesn't it??!!


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How did they meet?

Very true, the big difference though is the immediate availability. One guy I know (a decent chap just genuinely looking for a long term partner) basically said he could have slept with a different women every day from the online sites.

The obvious difference is by using an online site the women are looking for a quick shag too.

Everyone is happy.

I can't understand why there aren't hundreds of blokes getting blackmailed by 'give me your Rolex or I'll tell your Mrs' types.

A lot are, but some women are looking for a long term partner not just a short term shag, perhaps don't want to jump into bed on the first date.

Defo a lot of players on there that will use every trick to get what they want.

Open to women being abused if they are naive.

Exxxxxxxxxactly.

I quite agree wolf whistling is cringe, oh my god, so uncivilised. However, if another fella thinks it's a skill then fair enough. The idea that women will be 'upset or intimidated' plays havoc with my equality outlook. I invite any male blonde to proclaim they would be upset or intimidated upon receiving a wolf whistle from a girl? So let's apply the same strength of character to women right?

Personally in this scenario I would snap fist pump on the inside but look cool/normal outside, like it happens every day.

Hmmm...that said if it was a gang of hairy builders all hanging from the scaffolding and whistling at me I would probably vomit. Overall not sure about the wolf whistle actually?!? 

+1. speshly if the hairy builders were girls.

Unusual to see you so conflicted!

I think if you are confident you can wolf whistle and be taken in good humour then go for it, if you're unsure or feel that it won't be then best to leave it.

If you think it might be offensive but don't give a fuck and do it anyway then actually you're just a knob.

That's kinda true of a broad range of social environments actually

Suspect the age difference isn't much different than it ever was.

When you are young and attractive, you don't want to go into town and run a barrage of wolf whistles and blokes ogling your breasts every time you go out for a loaf of bread. 

When you get on and an old bag looks back at you every time you look in the mirror, then you are going to be a lot more welcoming of any complement that comes your way.  Of course they come so rarely, that they are much less likely to become tiresome.

Suspect this was pretty much the same when I was younger.  I can't remember any girls I knew looking forward to going past building sites.

Of course you aren't ever going to enjoy people in power grabbing your pussy at any age.

Wolf whistling?

Something I could never actually do, since I can barely do a sheep whistle. I always equated it with On The Buses types and hairy builders MANTIS mentioned earlier. Witnessed a fair bit of it in London where never-ending building work keeps an endless stream of builders in the city, and I rarely saw a female looking comfortable in receipt of the ww. But then I've also overheard groups of women agreeing that it's flattering. Wtf? Just proves that it's a totally situational and personal preference issue. Just like all the other stuff that doesn't encroach on the physically or mentally aggressive approach.

I've been married (and faithful) for many years, so I've got no experience of how the world of sex & relationships works these days, but a good mate of mine got divorced a couple of years ago. He joined a couple of Internet dating sites, and after about 18 months he was literally shagged out. There's an infinite supply of men & women who just want (& get) quick sex with anything that strikes their fancy. He's now as happy as Larry in a friends with benefits relationship with a pretty striking female 20 years his junior. Lucky bastard.

Then at the weekends I see girls aged 10-13 all made up & wearing revealing outfits in the shopping malls. Wtf are their parents thinking? No doubt the truth is that the mothers have unwittingly encouraged it as just being "a bit of fun".

So we've got all this Sodom & Gomorrah behaviour going on in real life, meanwhile we've now got people coming out of the woodwork complaining that someone made a suggestive remark or pressed up with their hardon in a slow dance 15 years ago, they've suffered PTSD and the culprit should be sacked/locked up/vilified.

We seem to be living in parallel universes, and it's bloody confusing.

And I need to get this resolved pretty soon, too, since I'm getting divorced.