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well today is the day my mother passed away after an 18 month fight against lung cancer. a fighter til the end and a credit to the human race. i dot know what im going to do without her but i will hang onto the vast amounts of good memories i have well embedded into my heart.
I hope my mum has peace but also that she is having a great time on the new part of her life journey.

Madge, Ill miss you forever

your daughter

Mad

I'm so sorry

Be strong Mad, think and talk of her often, cherish her memory, make her proud

Sorry to hear about your loss mad, think of the good times and never forget

Thanks guys and i will be extra strong because i need to learn ore of my mums ways and be the tower she was. i appreciate your support

mad

Mad,

I am so sorry for your loss. Like red has said, take time to cherish and remember your mum. Feel sad, or happy, or angry - what you feel is what is right for you. Don't stop yourself from feeling anything.

Most of all, look after yourself at this time. Your mum would want you to.

Heid
xx

Mad,

I have no idea what you are going through, so unlike others who know what to say at these times I wont pretend to know what I'm talking about.

All I can say is my thoughts are with you and she is in a better place.

x

Mad. I'm so sorry to hear your news.

Just know you have the support of your blonde friends if you need us.x.x

thanks for kind words everyone. im totally spaced out after no sleep since the night before last. im worried about how im going to feel after i get sleep. i hope its all ok

so sorry for your loss...may she rest in peace x

Hi mad this is going to be a very tough time for you but you have got to think of all the joy that has come out of the past
to help you through this

I do really know what your going through
my mum passed away over 2 years ago to cancer
and my dad has just passed away over 2 weeks ago from it too

Im all mixed up with emotions just now like hurt, sorrow , unbeliveing and and worst of all anger
from how should that person still be here to why can i beleive in anything

If there is one thing i have learned from all of this is there is always someone there for
you thinking and wishing you all the best, when you start to feal alone reach out
and you will be suprised at the people wanting to help
 
Try and be strong over the next few days are they are going to very hard for you
And most of all take care yourself

I am so sorry for your loss, take care of yourself, dont be afraid to ask for support xx

So sorry for your loss Mad , my thoughts are with you xx

I am at a loss for words...except,God Bless her and yourself.

Mad, sorry, take care.

Sorry to hear of your loss. May she Rest in Peace xxx

Mad & RFC, my heart goes out to you both,

Rod

Thanks all. Im sorry too RFC and i hope you are coping alright. i too have now lost both parents and although my dad died when i was young, i still hurt from it. i hope you have family around to support you. be well and happy if you can

mad

My condolences to you and your family. Having lost both my parents to cancer, dad when I was 16 and mum when I was 21, I can partly relate to what you are going though.

Be strong and remember the goods times as I'm sure this is what your mother would want.

RIP
Take all the pills the doctor offers you to get through the next few weeks. You might think you wont need them but they work wonders.
3 years on and I think of my old man every day. It's good though now, happy memories, it's kind of comforting really.
Good luck with everything.

My Mum died of cancer one year ago.  I still miss her a lot but now I try to remember all of the good times with her.  Do not fight the grieving process, it is all right to cry.  Actually just typing this has my eyes welling up, it will be the first anniversary of her passing away next week.  Lean on your family and friends and eventually the pain will become tolerable.

thanks everyone. there is so much solidarity on the forum and im honoured by you sharing your stories of grief and healing with me

whoever your gods are, bless you all

mad

remember Mad. your mother took her place in the four billion years,of life on this planet that has led to you.be gratful for your existance through her. Hold her memory close to your heart,remind yourself always of her presence,and take your place in the continum of life we all travel on.
My she rest easy in eternal peace.

Sorry for your loss

I'm very sorry to hear your news.


I totally agree. There are no rules on how long it takes to greave a loved one after an illness. No rules that say you must feel this or must feel that.

Take comfort in whatever way feels right for you.