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Title: A big thankyou Post by: redimp on April 29, 2006, 03:11:22 AM It was my cousins funeral today.
It was as you would expect the worst proper bad time ever,it was more difficult for me than most as the service was held in my home village church. The last time i was at my home village church was 9 years ago when i was there to bury Sam my 3 week old baby. I went to see him before the funeral and asked to look after Lee which is ironic cos Sam would only be 9 and Lee is was 32 but Sam has been in heaven longer so am planning on he is old enough to show him the ropes I never thought i could cry as much as i have today, i cryed so much had a headache from it. I have gone through so many emotions today from feeling guilty, I have not seen him for a while, to if i I forget in a few weeks time, how sad I am how bad will i feel then. And to the thankyou, i don't have many of you on msn... I do have Suzanne tho and omg did i need her tonight i just wanted someone to talik to that was not family. not a i feel sorry for you chat, just a jeez it was proper tough today and a shoulder to lean on chat And omg wow, she said the right thing at the right time and made me come back to earth again. So although this post is a massive thankyou to suzz, it is too to all blondes what a great family we all have on here.. Thankyou all shelly xxxxxxxxxxxxxx P.s if any kind mods can do my spelling mistakes cos i bet theres loads that would be cool Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: Poppet7 on April 29, 2006, 03:14:35 AM I never know what to say Shelly, so I'll just say that I'm here for a chat if you ever need it. Sorry I can't be of more help. x
Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: Colchester Kev on April 29, 2006, 03:32:01 AM spelling mistakes are not important in a post written from the heart.
I'm sure everyone here is humbled to think that we, in any way helped you through an emotionally traumatic time. Kev xxx Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: redimp on April 29, 2006, 03:37:24 AM Thankyou Kev
2 mins after I posted pops msn me, for one so young she has got a good head on her shoulders,I wish I had been that wise at her age!!!!!!!! Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: charmaine on April 29, 2006, 10:12:00 AM Its heartbreaking to read your post Shelly , ive sat here not knowing what to say .
My thoughts are with you . Charmaine xx Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: Sark79 on April 29, 2006, 11:39:00 AM thoughts are with you as well shelly
Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: tikay on April 29, 2006, 02:38:26 PM Charmaine puts my thoughts into words exactly. Take care Shelly, you know where we are if you get a bit down. xx Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: madasahatstand on April 29, 2006, 07:57:04 PM shelly
the best i can say is to try to focus on the positive thoughts youve got of your baby and your cousin. going down the road constantly feeling guilty is painful and cuts you up. im not saying dont go down that road at all because you will, but just try not to go there all the time. try to keep busy even if its posting here or playing poker. distraction helps a lot. all my thoughts are wiith you and if i could, id share some of your burdon. take it easy and dont beat yourself up mad xx Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: allym on April 30, 2006, 12:46:31 AM I'm useless at this kinda stuff, but glad to help and also to be a part of blonde! Thoughts are with you!
PS: you can add (e-mail addy deleted by tikay) if you like! Same goes for everyone! PPS: Always look on the brightside!!! Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: tikay on April 30, 2006, 12:57:45 AM allyn, it was lovely that you gave Shelly your e-mail addy, but it's a bad thing to Post your e-addy on an Open Forum. I will PM it to Shelly (Red Imp) for you, then delete the addy from the Post. Hope you don't mind.
Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: tikay on April 30, 2006, 01:04:17 AM Done. Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: turny on April 30, 2006, 01:14:13 AM my thoughts are with you shelly take care x
Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: allym on April 30, 2006, 01:26:11 AM No bother Tikayl! Didn't realise! Sorry!
Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: tikay on April 30, 2006, 01:28:06 AM No bother Tikayl! Didn't realise! Sorry! No probs allyn, just don't want you being plagued with Spammers. They lurk on blonde, you know! Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: edy g on April 30, 2006, 01:40:14 AM MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU RIGHT NOW....XX
Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: Rod Paradise on April 30, 2006, 01:54:10 AM redimp, you never know who will show to be great when you need them. But to deserve them you've got to be the kind of person they care about yourself... I'm proud of all the blondeites who've been there for you, and hope that the thoughts of someone who doesn't know you can help you in some little way.
Title: Re: A big thankyou Post by: suzanne on April 30, 2006, 04:37:37 PM Hi Shelly,
No need to thank me hun, I am just glad to have helped you get through these tough times in some small way. My only brother died in a car accident at the age of 22 so I know exactly what you are going through. Its tragic when the young are taken from us with no warning. The pain will ease with time and the good memories will live with you forever. Take care and I'm here anytime you want to chat. xx |