PJ wants nothing more than anyway :p
Also I think you were correct speaking up about what happened, terrible from A8 player if he genuinely knew he lost, although on the end of long sessions your brain is kind of mushed. Also phil should of known what was happening and double checked, it's happening more and more lately including to me, lapse in concentrations do happen though, but on the same token I think you should be checking your hand even at showdown when you have six high.
Hope you get out bud