is nem coming back?

[ifm]

We need a poll

Added in Nem Like fashion.

Can't see that lasting...........

why ?  its not offensive to anyone, is it?

The powers that be may not like being second guessed, especially if the last option wins.
Though i think having 1 and 4 will dilute the poll

[Sark79]

I voted for 1, but it could have been 4 also.  I just never read that option correctly. Either way, bring him back 

[Newmanseye]

If the last option wins then it will be indicative of the opinion of the blonde.

[booder]

If the last option wins then it will be indicitive of the opinion of the blonde.voters

[Newmanseye]

If the last option wins then it will be indicitive of the opinion of the blonde.voters

Cheers I was rushing whilst plaing a cash hand lol

[booder]

Cheers I was rushing whilst playing a cash hand lol

[sofa----king]

well well well ,i didnt even know he was banned,THIS GUY IS A GREAT GUY HE HAS DONE NOTHING BUT HELP ME ON HERE WITH A FEW THINGS and i also seen him help others on here seriously he is a credit to any forum whatever he was banned for must have been silly ,bring him back the forum needs people like him ,hes a real nice guy

[Sark79]

I just wish I had selected option 4 now,  thats what happens if you don't read the question correctly

[sofa----king]

what was he banned for?

[Newmanseye]

Cheers I was rushing whilst playing a cash hand lol

C'mon, gimme a break

[RED-DOG]

what was he banned for?

Groan.....

Do you REALLY think The Mods - me included - enjoy suspending good, solid, Members of blonde?

Did we get it wrong? Maybe, maybe not. Who'll ever know?

Most of us - The Mods I mean - were desperately sad to have to take the actions we did - but if you were in possession of the facts we were - & it's UNLIKELY you were, as we had lengthy written evidence from several parties - you'd know we had no choice. We asked the guys to cool it, several times. We said "please, no more". It continued. Several Mods wrote PM's "come on guys, give it a rest". It went on, and on, The Mods spent hours & hours & hours trying to sort it, time that could have been usefully employed on positive things. Eventually, a line has to be drawn, whether we want to or not. As I said earlier, it's possible we got it wrong. And it's possible we did not. But we acted in good faith, after trying evey method we could to get the guys to chill out. Anyone that thinks we enjoyed all that palaver is not really thinking it through.

I, along with most other blondes, miss Nem greatly. (He sent me the Allen Carr "Give Up Smoking The Easy Way" Book which was damn kind of him). He has to decide whether to Post or not in future, that's his call. I hope he does, but who knows?

People keep saying he's a good guy. We never suggested otherwise. Others "like him". So do we. What's that gotta do with it?

It's a remarkable thing though, the assumption that suspending someone temporarily is easy, or pleasant, or fun.

It's done for a reason, to keep this Forum "just so". We ain't gonna ease our stance for anyone, we want blonde to be a certain sort of place. Those that knock us can knock all day & all night. We will remain a Moderated Forum, where civility, decent manners, respect, & decent morality take precedence. There are plenty of unmoderated Fora for those that don't respect such values, or who feel unable to stay within the boundaries of behaviour we have set.

Some days I almost feel like we have to apologise for keeping this place decent. We get accused of being "nicey-wicey". Like it's some kind of sin.....!

Such is life.

Membership is free, so that allows us to set the Rules.

Goodnight all, see you tomorrow.

PS - How on earth did we get from buying lappies to this?

http://blondepoker.com/forum/index.php?topic=15925.30

[booder]

Cheers I was rushing whilst playing a cash hand lol

C'mon, gimme a break

 

[sofa----king]

what was he banned for?

Groan.....

Do you REALLY think The Mods - me included - enjoy suspending good, solid, Members of blonde?

Did we get it wrong? Maybe, maybe not. Who'll ever know?

Most of us - The Mods I mean - were desperately sad to have to take the actions we did - but if you were in possession of the facts we were - & it's UNLIKELY you were, as we had lengthy written evidence from several parties - you'd know we had no choice. We asked the guys to cool it, several times. We said "please, no more". It continued. Several Mods wrote PM's "come on guys, give it a rest". It went on, and on, The Mods spent hours & hours & hours trying to sort it, time that could have been usefully employed on positive things. Eventually, a line has to be drawn, whether we want to or not. As I said earlier, it's possible we got it wrong. And it's possible we did not. But we acted in good faith, after trying evey method we could to get the guys to chill out. Anyone that thinks we enjoyed all that palaver is not really thinking it through.

I, along with most other blondes, miss Nem greatly. (He sent me the Allen Carr "Give Up Smoking The Easy Way" Book which was damn kind of him). He has to decide whether to Post or not in future, that's his call. I hope he does, but who knows?

People keep saying he's a good guy. We never suggested otherwise. Others "like him". So do we. What's that gotta do with it?

It's a remarkable thing though, the assumption that suspending someone temporarily is easy, or pleasant, or fun.

It's done for a reason, to keep this Forum "just so". We ain't gonna ease our stance for anyone, we want blonde to be a certain sort of place. Those that knock us can knock all day & all night. We will remain a Moderated Forum, where civility, decent manners, respect, & decent morality take precedence. There are plenty of unmoderated Fora for those that don't respect such values, or who feel unable to stay within the boundaries of behaviour we have set.

Some days I almost feel like we have to apologise for keeping this place decent. We get accused of being "nicey-wicey". Like it's some kind of sin.....!

Such is life.

Membership is free, so that allows us to set the Rules.

Goodnight all, see you tomorrow.

PS - How on earth did we get from buying lappies to this?

http://blondepoker.com/forum/index.php?topic=15925.30

thanks tom but i still didnt get why he was banned no probs really none of my business but he really helped me a lot on here to the extent ,the 1 time i sent him £50 for a bit of help hes been nothing but kind and helpfull i thought ,but hey i suppose he musta done something wrong coz he is a top poster cheers anyway,,,,

[Gryff]

I love the "new labour" poll.
Three options for unban, one option to keep him banned.
Nice and unbiased poll I see 

[Newmanseye]

Well I would happily add more options if you tell me what you would like to see in there, I doubt that anyone would have wanted to see Him banned permanently so i put up the best I could think of on the spot.