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« Reply #825 on: April 13, 2013, 10:35:00 AM »

Safe travels and lots of hugs to the wee man.  xx
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« Reply #826 on: May 02, 2013, 08:02:52 AM »

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Weds 2nd May 2013
 
We have been here at home now for just over 2 weeks and have just under 2 weeks of our holiday remaining. It has been great to see all the family and friends again especially to see how the children have grown in the 14 months since we were last here.

I had forgotten just how bloody hot it gets here during April & May, +30° every day, all I want to do is sleep, have to say Daniel has adapted well and doesn’t seemed fazed at all, although the aircon bill will be higher from now on.

As much as I am happy to be home it has been a fairly stressful trip so far, doing any sort of official business here is such a drama, never seems to run smoothly and because I am aware of this I am usually stressed even before attempting anything. Roxanne is not much help when it comes to anything official as she has always had people to do it for her before or she believes she can ‘buy whatever she needs’ which is probably true but not the way I want to conduct things.

The main thing we wanted to do was to file the papers for Daniel to become recognised as a Filipino citizen, trying to be organised I emailed the Immigration Bureau here in advance and asked them all the relevant questions (so I thought) and they were kind enough to respond with a list of documents required and also saying the papers could be filed at SubPorts (offices) which is ideal as there is one here in our City.

On arriving at the SubPort and explaining what we wished to do they looked at us as if we had come from another planet saying they didn’t process papers there and we needed to go to Manila, I told them I understood they didn’t process but we just wanted to FILE the papers and they would send them to Manila (as explained in the email I received and showed to them), still no favourable response and told us to come back the following Wednesday when an official from Manila would be there and maybe he would take the papers for us.

So the following Wednesday we returned and saw said officer who seemed a bit vague but in fairness made a couple of calls to Manila and then said he would check our documents and if in order would take them for us. This is when we find out the Immigration people in responding to me forgot 1 vital piece of info and that was that we needed to get Daniels birth certificate authenticated at the Philippine Embassy in LONDON BEFEORE we travelled!!!!

Luckily the same officer from Manila on checking our passports explained that because we came through with Roxanne we have Balikbayan (returning Filipino) status stamped which allows 12 months stay, so Daniel is fine and we will try again when we return in January next year..............

I will report some more later but for now I include a few pics of stay so far.

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« Reply #827 on: May 02, 2013, 08:04:08 AM »

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« Reply #828 on: May 02, 2013, 08:04:47 AM »

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« Reply #829 on: May 02, 2013, 08:05:26 AM »

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« Reply #830 on: May 02, 2013, 08:06:16 AM »

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« Reply #831 on: May 02, 2013, 08:07:07 AM »

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« Reply #832 on: May 02, 2013, 08:38:59 AM »

He's such a cutie!  Glad you got there safe and hope you enjoy the next couple of weeks.  xx
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« Reply #833 on: May 02, 2013, 08:58:35 AM »

Great Pics Graham!

Still my favourite read on here.
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« Reply #834 on: May 02, 2013, 09:12:49 AM »

I feel like saying you're a lucky sod Graham, but the truth is, I know it's down to hard work, not luck.
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« Reply #835 on: May 06, 2013, 06:59:05 AM »

5 Years

Monday 6th May 2013

Yes it’s really 5 years ago that I started this thread and I guess a fair bit has happened since then otherwise I wouldn’t still be writing here.

In some respects I feel as I have achieved quite a bit, certainly more than I would have expected when I touched down at Heathrow on that sunny morning in 2008, in other respects I do feel frustrated that financially I am nowhere nearer my end goal now then I was on that morning.

Now of course we are approaching what has certainly been the hardest decision for me in the last 5 years and that is that we will be returning to Guernsey next Wed/Thurs minus Daniel!!

The decision was made for us really although if I had decided to return to the UK things may have been different (I’m not entirely convinced about that).

Firstly I must say the management at the Hotel have been absolutely fantastic about the whole episode allowing Daniel to stay with us in our room for the 1st three months and the staff have loved having him there coming to visit when they could and spoiling him with loads of presents.

Renting property in Guernsey is not an option as far as we are concerned as it is way too expensive, and Daniel staying in the Hotel was never going to be a long term option so it was either a case of finding work in the UK and having to rent somewhere but due to our present commitments this wasn’t something I looked at very seriously.

Those of you who follow regularly will know Danilo (Roxanne’s father) has been undergoing dialysis treatment for the past 6 months or so which he needs twice a week and of course which we are supporting him with, having seen him this past month it is money well spent in my opinion.

This costs us £122 per week on top of that he needs his medicines and of course we also support the family with the utility bills and whatever is left over goes on food  This runs out at around £600 per month so it doesn’t take a lot of working out that Roxanne still needs to be working full time in order for us to maintain all of this and it doesn’t leave a great deal over IF we were to rent in the UK, so as we are both very happy in Guernsey and a certain sense of loyalty to the Hotel kicks in this is where we plan to continue living and working.

I knew when the time came for us to return it was going to be hard for Roxanne but I thought I would be able to be look at things from a practical point of view and would be OK but these past few weeks here with Daniel are telling me different and it is honestly breaking my heart every day, but life must go on as they say.......


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