To be honest mate its a small set up and i wasnt even there - i know all the people involved and the fellas are ok just a bit clueless 
Only the eventual winner even thinks it was wrong now lol
My sanity is threatened trying to explain so i thought id seek help here
1    play by house   rules         if its a small   set-up    and TD  plays too  u know this going in          vote with ur feet  IF u have a problem with it.
2   %  openly  declared       least they honest about it      most  good players  have done this b4   part and parcel of bankroll mgt imo               most are just a little more savvy   is all 
3   the TD cannot   make a neutral decision     fact.