Teamonkey, whatever your beef with the Army(which I can understand) I still think you should wear a regimental tie, as a nod to your friends life in the Army.
regards,
Cpl Jones RAF(ret'd)
Knowing my friend as i do, he'd understand, possibly approve if we all turned up in clown outfits!
But he would have been disappointed if i'd have turned up in something i didn't want to wear
I do however understand what you are saying, and get the reasoning behind it.
Anyway, bought a suit from Tesco, white shirt , black tie, all for a reasonable amount (plus 20% off till sunday on all clothes), just need to get some shoes next week once my min cash from the GP hits my bank.
Mick