Ah, again thanks everyone, a bit choked.
Tikay you're right, it has boosted my confidence, and I've replayed the game in my mind to see where and how I played differently this time. I did have some major luck on some of the push ins, but at the same time I loosened right up with starting selection and took position into account more this time.
Thats all thanks to the PHA board and this forum. Its taken some time to finally loosen up (hand wise before you start with yer jokes lol), let's hope I keep it on that track

Mich/x