Diaries

[Woodsey]

Cba reading 20 pages, cliffs anyone please? 

[MANTIS01]

Why is having a big ego a bad thing btw? I've got a massive ego. If there's one thing poker players and bodybuilders share it's a big ego isn't it?

Anyhow Tikay you wanna join me and Celtic for dinner tonight? If you do book a table in the restaurant and let me know, my shout. Would pm you but no confidence it wouldn't be published

[RED-DOG]

Once someone had said no to having a pm published it does not sit ready with me when mods start hinting at the contents and/or trying to persuade them to change their mind. Either have a rule about publishing pms and stick to it or don't have a rule

The rule, afaik, is PM's are not published without permission.

I'm not hinting at the contents mate, Tony says it proves that ohdear has a hidden agenda. That's not a hint, that's a statement.

So long as I do it honestly and openly, I see nothing wrong with my suggesting he vindicate himself by allowing its publication.

[kinboshi]

Once someone had said no to having a pm published it does not sit easy with me when mods start hinting at the contents and/or trying to persuade them to change their mind. Either have a rule about publishing pms and stick to it or don't have a rule

No one's hinted at the content have they? 

The rule is that PMs aren't published, and it hasn't been.  From what I read, Tikay and Tighty were asking ohdear to post the PM he sent to tikay on the thread.  No one is forcing him to.  Just the same way as no one is forcing him to post in this thread.

[kinboshi]

Pleno said mods can see pms 

Yes, a mod can see a PM when it is sent to them.

[GreekStein]

Once someone had said no to having a pm published it does not sit ready with me when mods start hinting at the contents and/or trying to persuade them to change their mind. Either have a rule about publishing pms and stick to it or don't have a rule

Good point.

Not really.

He said the pm couldn't be posted. He wasn't really prodded until he started talking about the pm and what he said in it, yet he wont let it be posted.

[pokerfan]

Can every one have a pm of the pm 

[Longy]

The pm should have never even been brought up in the first place, that it is the point of private messages!

Ohdear as i mentioned earlier in the thread I felt you had some valid points, but that validity is being diluted everytime you post again on this thread. Just let it lie.

[smashedagain]

Once someone had said no to having a pm published it does not sit ready with me when mods start hinting at the contents and/or trying to persuade them to change their mind. Either have a rule about publishing pms and stick to it or don't have a rule

Good point.

Not really.

He said the pm couldn't be posted. He wasn't really prodded until he started talking about the pm and what he said in it, yet he wont let it be posted.

Good point

[ohdear]

everyone just wants to see the pm now to be nosey, everyone said they didn't have an interest in this debate now everyone wants to see the pm though and is suddenly very interested in the debate/thread/me etc. and i'm the one apparently that has no life?

and red dog vindicated of what? i dont need to be vindicated of anything pal

tightend gave an explanation, not a great one tbf, to my question after 17 pages and i was grateful at least to get that and said so, ironside gave a better explanation which i thanked him for, i wish that had just been said on page 3 lol, that was all was asking from the start tbf

as to what i wrote to tikay in the pm that was my opinion on why i thought he didnt want his diary moved and what i thought about that. that was between me and him and it's got nothing to do with what my beliefs are about why you should have a diary subsection and why you should be compelling diarists to post more on the open forum, believe me or don't, i don't really give a shit

if you post the pm and it seems really nasty and like i have a massive agenda does it then invalidate all the other posters on this thread who have put forward several and varied opinions on why the diarys should be moved? no, so what the fuck does it matter

i don't blame anyone though for wanting to see it, now its been built up etc, its just human nature, the mods are probably dying for you to see it hoping that it may cause a lynch mob and everyone else because, well you're a bunch of nosey bastards lol, so would i be though so i don't blame you.

the questions i put about the diaries were answered, not greatly, ironside's explanation was good and i believed some of those reasons, that did for me.

the thing i said to tikay was between me and him, and now all the mods lol, but in doesn't really matter if you, them , anyone thinks i have an agenda because all the reasons i have for disliking the diarys, what they do to the forum and where they're placed have already now been said by a bunch of other blondes so you can discredit me or question my motives for posting which apparently invalidates my arguments but they've already been made by a bunch of other blondes who no one would suggest has an agenda so it makes no difference now

[ohdear]

The pm should have never even been brought up in the first place, that it is the point of private messages!

Ohdear as i mentioned earlier in the thread I felt you had some valid points, but that validity is being diluted everytime you post again on this thread. Just let it lie.

i'm trying, i'm not going to post again

i even said to tightend in a private message ealier that after i'd thanked him for the explination he finally gave and was done with the thread since then CF has come on and said i had no life and ironside came on said i had jealousy problem

in fact it's only all kicked off in the past 3 or 4 pages after i've twice said thanks for finally getting an explination about the diaries, lol go figure

[Junior Senior]

Cba reading 20 pages, cliffs anyone please? 

Some newbie called oh dear who does steroids and might be related in some way to mantis is causing mischeif of epic proportions and although has never posted before is trying to police the joint! He hates the mods and is trying to tell forum members what they can and cant say in their own diaries.


Or something like that

[Ironside]

ffs how can anyone on this planet mix up a tighty explaination and an ironside one

[cambridgealex]

Oh dear for mod

[MANTIS01]

Cba reading 20 pages, cliffs anyone please? 

Some newbie called oh dear who does steroids and might be related in some way to mantis is causing mischeif of epic proportions and although has never posted before is trying to police the joint! He hates the mods and is trying to tell forum members what they can and cant say in their own diaries.


Or something like that

I don't know who this dude is. He just came on and said as a thinker and writer I am head and shoulders above anybody on Blonde. Seemed like a regular shrewd fella to me.