Is it not about time we had a female Moderator on board ?

[Poppet7]

Exploiting would be a better word for it, perhaps

[TightEnd]

Poppet, you know and I know that moderators have spent a lot of time assisting you at difficult times recently.

Don't throw it back in our face.

[charmaine]

Stop using the secret room to slag people off then there wouldn't be the problem of partners seeing it. Simple.

LOL

you really believe thats what we do ??

And its not a "secret room"  it is another board where moderating issues are discussed and deabted before decosions are made by a collective of people all from differing backgrounds.

Yes it gets heated in there , and yes issues are debated strongly and yes we do fall out with each other from time to time ... but its healthy and it means that when we make a decision, we are of one voice.

we dont "slag people off" and i resent the fact that you say that.

But Kev does watch dirty dirty movies in there , he asked me to pop in for some   ,     and a good movie , cant wait !!

[Ironside]

the "secret room" is not a place for mods slagging people off if it was then i would be no part of blonde in any shape or form and that includes reading the board as a guest

the board is there so we can move post away from the main boards to disccuss them and to keep them on record for future refrence

the only people that get slagged off on the mods board are the mods who slag each other off as we debate the finer points in the removal of a post thread or member

[RED-DOG]

Exploiting would be a better word for it, perhaps

I'm not sure what you mean, but I don't think I like what your implying.

[Sheriff Fatman]

But Kev does watch dirty dirty movies in there , he asked me to pop in for some  ,    and a good movie , cant wait !!

He's panicking now - no-one's ever said yes before.

[Colchester Kev]

Stop using the secret room to slag people off then there wouldn't be the problem of partners seeing it. Simple.

LOL

you really believe thats what we do ??

And its not a "secret room"  it is another board where moderating issues are discussed and deabted before decosions are made by a collective of people all from differing backgrounds.

Yes it gets heated in there , and yes issues are debated strongly and yes we do fall out with each other from time to time ... but its healthy and it means that when we make a decision, we are of one voice.

we dont "slag people off" and i resent the fact that you say that.

OK, maybe I worded it wrong... you know what I'm talking about though

No Poppet, I dont ... enlighten me.

[Sark79]

It is a secret room,  tikay owned up to it once.  There is a password to get in and once inside there are bowls of free party size sausages, a corner wine rack with a wide selection of expensive bottles and a juke box . 

[tantrum]

 

[Dingdell]

Stop using the secret room to slag people off then there wouldn't be the problem of partners seeing it. Simple.

LOL

you really believe thats what we do ??

And its not a "secret room"  it is another board where moderating issues are discussed and deabted before decosions are made by a collective of people all from differing backgrounds.

Yes it gets heated in there , and yes issues are debated strongly and yes we do fall out with each other from time to time ... but its healthy and it means that when we make a decision, we are of one voice.

we dont "slag people off" and i resent the fact that you say that.

OK, maybe I worded it wrong... you know what I'm talking about though

I don't know what you are talking about - i have never found the mods to be anything but fair - I don't tend to get involved in personal issues on here and I often have no idea why people fall out - it goes above my head.

I do know that being a mod is a thankless task, unpaid, not much fun and it's all done for the forum. Without mods it would be anarchy and most would leave.

Shall we keeo this discussion to whether a female mod is required or start branching off into other urelated issues which if they are of concern should be voiced elsewhere?

[Poppet7]

Sorry.

I was out of order. I'll shhh

Bad Mood Poppet x

[charmaine]

It is a secret room,  tikay owned up to it once.  There is a password to get in and once inside there are bowls of free party size sausages, a corner wine rack with a wide selection of expensive bottles and a juke box . 

Dont forget the dirty movies Sark 

[RED-DOG]

If the person who instigated this thread (not the person who started it) had just come on and had her say about the issue that concerned her, we wouldn't be having this discussion now.

[byronkincaid]

let's branch


 

[Sark79]

lol,  i forgot about Kev's movies