chivalry vs feminism

[Swordpoker]

what does she look like??

Let\'s say she\'s a gorgeous, slim brunette. But if you make a move on her, she\'ll kick your ass.

Kinky

[kinboshi]

what does she look like??

Let\'s say she\'s a gorgeous, slim brunette. But if you make a move on her, she\'ll kick your ass.

Kinky

Thought you were talking about the wife.  But then I saw that you said brunette...

[bolt pp]

what does she look like??

Let\'s say she\'s a gorgeous, slim brunette. But if you make a move on her, she\'ll kick your ass.

Is this a work colleage or someone you've phoned up from the back of a newspaper?

[madasahatstand]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

[kinboshi]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

[KingPoker]

I believe in chivalry and always will and in my experience I have never ever come across a woman, lady, girl who has been offended by me being this way.

My question is, has any real woman (not one of those power lesbians or shrill feminist activists) ever actually been offended by a chivalralous (sp?) man, i doubt it very much!!!

IMO its manners anyway and i will never change from doing it!

[The_nun]

Kin ..lol...chivalry is not about fastening her bra after...

[AndrewT]

Kin ..lol...chivalry is not about fastening her bra after...

 

'I'm not having you walk home this time of night sweetheart - here's a tenner for a cab'

[madasahatstand]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

Well I couldnt give a dam:) Anyone upset by that got their own issues or beliefs. I am a proactive supporter of women but I dont judge people who dont agree with me. I do feel that some right wing exteme feminists do more good than harm to the cause. They use feminism as vehicle to put across the 'hate men' message and that in my opinion is not what feminism should be doing. Tantrum and I had this very discussion. Its wide and complex and could potentially open up a huge can of worms......lol

[tikay]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

Well I couldnt give a dam:) Anyone upset by that got their own issues or beliefs. I am a proactive supporter of women but I dont judge people who dont agree with me. I do feel that some right wing exteme feminists do more good than harm to the cause. They use feminism as vehicle to put across the 'hate men' message and that in my opinion is not what feminism should be doing. Tantrum and I had this very discussion. Its wide and complex and could potentially open up a huge can of worms......lol

Tantrum.......

(Message intercepted by the tikay patented tantrum Alert System).

[madasahatstand]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

Well I couldnt give a dam:) Anyone upset by that got their own issues or beliefs. I am a proactive supporter of women but I dont judge people who dont agree with me. I do feel that some right wing exteme feminists do more good than harm to the cause. They use feminism as vehicle to put across the 'hate men' message and that in my opinion is not what feminism should be doing. Tantrum and I had this very discussion. Its wide and complex and could potentially open up a huge can of worms......lol

Tantrum.......

(Message intercepted by the tikay patented tantrum Alert System).

Do anti harrassment laws stretch to online poker forums?

[tikay]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

Well I couldnt give a dam:) Anyone upset by that got their own issues or beliefs. I am a proactive supporter of women but I dont judge people who dont agree with me. I do feel that some right wing exteme feminists do more good than harm to the cause. They use feminism as vehicle to put across the 'hate men' message and that in my opinion is not what feminism should be doing. Tantrum and I had this very discussion. Its wide and complex and could potentially open up a huge can of worms......lol

Tantrum.......

(Message intercepted by the tikay patented tantrum Alert System).

Do anti harrassment laws stretch to online poker forums?

OK, rumbled, but can I harass her a little itsy bit?

[madasahatstand]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

Well I couldnt give a dam:) Anyone upset by that got their own issues or beliefs. I am a proactive supporter of women but I dont judge people who dont agree with me. I do feel that some right wing exteme feminists do more good than harm to the cause. They use feminism as vehicle to put across the 'hate men' message and that in my opinion is not what feminism should be doing. Tantrum and I had this very discussion. Its wide and complex and could potentially open up a huge can of worms......lol

Tantrum.......

(Message intercepted by the tikay patented tantrum Alert System).

Do anti harrassment laws stretch to online poker forums?

OK, rumbled, but can I harass her a little itsy bit?

you'll have to submit an 'exception to the rules' request.

[tikay]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

Well I couldnt give a dam:) Anyone upset by that got their own issues or beliefs. I am a proactive supporter of women but I dont judge people who dont agree with me. I do feel that some right wing exteme feminists do more good than harm to the cause. They use feminism as vehicle to put across the 'hate men' message and that in my opinion is not what feminism should be doing. Tantrum and I had this very discussion. Its wide and complex and could potentially open up a huge can of worms......lol

Tantrum.......

(Message intercepted by the tikay patented tantrum Alert System).

Do anti harrassment laws stretch to online poker forums?

OK, rumbled, but can I harass her a little itsy bit?

you'll have to submit an 'exception to the rules' request.

Submitted, reply pending.

[madasahatstand]

I would want my own room as a woman. If it were 2 women and a man, like Claw says, the man would get his own room. Although I support feminism, I quite like chivalry. today for example I was at a conference and was sat next to a man who is about 60. I know him from work. When i took off my jacket he helped me. At the break i stood to put my jacket back on again and there he was helping me on with it. I liked it:) I also like having doors open for me and if a man wants to carry my heavy bags, I would allow this. I think there is a balance to be struck and I suppose whats acceptable to one might not be acceptable to another. Both feminism and chivalry can co-exist in my opinion.

Good.  I like to be chivalrous, in fact, I try to be helpful as much as I can - it makes life easier.  I'll hold a door open for a woman, but I'll also hold it open for a man.  I'd even hold it open for Kev (as long as it was the exit).

However, what you're saying there MAAHS would upset a lot of feminists. 

Well I couldnt give a dam:) Anyone upset by that got their own issues or beliefs. I am a proactive supporter of women but I dont judge people who dont agree with me. I do feel that some right wing exteme feminists do more good than harm to the cause. They use feminism as vehicle to put across the 'hate men' message and that in my opinion is not what feminism should be doing. Tantrum and I had this very discussion. Its wide and complex and could potentially open up a huge can of worms......lol

Tantrum.......

(Message intercepted by the tikay patented tantrum Alert System).

Do anti harrassment laws stretch to online poker forums?

OK, rumbled, but can I harass her a little itsy bit?

you'll have to submit an 'exception to the rules' request.

Submitted, reply pending.

having consulted all relevant parties, 'Carry On............'