Folding unless you are holding TJ puts you on a very tight range... just for the hell of it include AA and KK as starting hand possibles....

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Ronnie, where exactly are you going to ? As Claw said; if it's a home game with 4 others it's a different game a game at the casino.
My advice..have fun..try to relax and pay attention t what others do.
Don't both with a "sticking to TJ" thing.
I would say play; AA/KK/ and AK hard. you bet with it and your chips go in the middle with it pre-flop. Be somewhat carefull with QQ/JJ...they are dangerous hands. If on a full table at the casino..if you can limp with any pocket pair below 10's you should..and lead out when you hit your set...fold if you don't.
Play the low-midrange suited connectors like 7-9 6-7 6-8 5-6 5-7 and 4-5 (anything one gapped or linked between 4 and 9)if you can..these are the hands that if they hit they can hit hard and you can get paid off big...but only play them if you can get in relatively cheap and the reward could be there at the other end. (In other words..against a guy with a big stack or loads of people in the pot who get attached to a big pair.)
the main thing is..don't be over awed and don't spend too much dosh..try to become comfortable where you are...you don't have to win the tourney the first time you pay it..it's supposed to be fun.