Michelle, you seem to know exactly where you need to work on your game.
You want to know how to accumulate chips rather than let yourself get to the point where you're getting it all-in (with a decent hand), but are often only a 60/40 favourite with your tournament life on the line - and so it's often the end of your tournament, especially as you might have to race more than a few times.
Your play in this hand was fine.
+1..you seem to have thought about your game a lot...It took me ages to figure out how to play to win. I was the same as you, cashing every week but never winning the thing...only after a long time did I realise that this actually meant that I was losing money by not winning (I made a profit but just didn't win as often as I should and that meant I wasn't making as much as I should) The switch to a "play to win" game meant I didn't cash for a while but after a while the results finally came.
Don't be scared of losing chips by doing the right thing. If you make the right play and go broke that's just the way it is.
I am sure that if you keep thinking about your game the way you are now the results will inevitably come.
+1 more....
Check the difference in prize money between 8th/9th/10th and 1st/2nd for this recent random example at DTD.
http://www.dusktilldawnpoker.com/resultplayers.php?id=310Taking in to account the buy in of £55 you get £21/£46/£71 for making the money or final table then going out early. If you can accumulate chips and get 1st/2nd you've got £1006 or £1713 ftw. The difference in prize money as the places go up makes it worth taking a few risks to give yourself a good chance of winning rather than just scraping through.
In 10 tournaments would you rather finish 8th 10 times or 1st once? It's either £710 or £1218 profit. I know which I'd prefer.
If you can start playing for the win then like Boldie says you will start seeing the results come. You will soon learn to pick your spots to shove, who you can steal off, how much you need to shove to get a bet through etc...
Just wait til you start shoving with 9 2 off from middle position with 10 BBs still in front of you because you know how tight the blinds ranges are.
Just wait to see their faces when you suck out and hit your 2 on the river when they've called you with AK and their micro stack. You'll love it

(This last bit's a joke btw. Never shove with 9 2 off when there's a micro stack behind you. His calling range is very wide and still beats your 9 2 and you're likely to lose) This is what I mean by learning when to shove. It's all about position, shoving ranges, calling ranges etc.....
All good fun
