im GUTTED,GUTTED

[sofa----king]

looking for sympathy???.,.,not really.,.just really fed up.,.i think as most of you know me,mel and niall moved to cyprus 16 months ago for a better way of life.,.,after sharkyshades sunglasses failing in the uk due to poor weather.,.,we said to our-selves lets get out of old blighty,.,start fresh new business.,.,new home ect.,.,well its gone a bit tits up and im so,so gutted.,.,
MEL my wife is homesick,.,.,and my son is a little bit too.,.,but as for me i love living in the sun so,so much.,.,i have built up a very good business out here with a fencing company and also importing vehicles out here.,.,.i am gutted.,.,but what can i do.,.,i love my wife and son so much i have to make sure of thier happiness too.,.,
writing this seems unreal.,.after our first year we had a vote and we all decided cyprus was still for us.,.,but unknown to me my wife was hiding that she reallly was homesick, but she kept thinking it would pass.,.,which it hasnt.,and she didt want to upset me as i love it so,so,so,so,so much here.,.,.,.,
i just cant see the the attraction for my wife to want to go back,.,credit crunch ect,.,our business here is doing very well at its so laid back and easy here,.,.,.,.
i am quite private when it comes to things like this as im allways messing around and or im ok its me james allways up for a laugh,,but mel said to write it on here it might make me feel better,,.,.mmmmmmmmmm not at the moment,,
i even bought them a puppy 3 weeks ago trying to make it feel a bit better.,.,lol.,.,.,and now we cant come back for atleast 8 months as the dog has to have rabbies injections ect.,.,so thats a bonus.,.,i been thinking if i buy a new dog every 6 months we could never come back,waiting for jabs lol.,.,.,

i think what hasnt helped is my sister who lives out here around the corner has decided to sell up out here and go back,,,she said this a few weeks ago.,.,.then my mum and dad who lives 200 yds away said we are too .,.,so i think this was the nail in the coffin for my wife to say to me,.,.,.
my sister been here 3 years and is single and LOADED she just wants a change.,.,any single guys apply here or pm me lol.,.,.my mum and dad are comfortable to and we look after them aswell,.,.they been here 2 and a half years.,,.my dad misses the wildlife in wales.,.,.,.,.,.

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didnt know what to say then.,.,.,.,.,.,.,.,....,.,.,,,.,.,

im just so gutted.,.,its like the wind is out of my sails.,.,,built up a good business here ,..,.,now i have 8 months left.,.,i dont feel like doing anything,.,.,but then on the other hand it would be nice to come back with free money to by a couple of propertys as june/july 2009 they might be good investments..,.,.,.,

i am so gutted its not like me to be mopeing around .,.,.,.,but my wife and sons hapiness is very important to me
and they come first before anything,..,.,.,.,..,ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh well ive said it out loud and got it off my chest.,.,.,still feels like chit.,.,.,lol..,.,
it will be funny getting back into the live poker game.,.,.look out dtd,.,.ect.,.,.,.,
thanx for listening.,.,.,.,.,.mr sad man.,.,.,

[pokerfan]

Buy now if your definately coming back 3%ir buyers market and all that, sorry it didnt work out for you but at least you did it. my missus wont even leave this village ffs nevermind the country.

[Dewi_cool]

Croeso adref Iago xx

[sofa----king]

Buy now if your definately coming back 3%ir buyers market and all that, sorry it didnt work out for you but at least you did it. my missus wont even leave this village ffs nevermind the country.

thanks.,.,i suppose yes we did it.,.,but i love it.,.,easyish money.,.,great lifestyle.,.,i was just out the garden having a coffee its nearly midnight here and still in shorts.,.,

i just cant get my head around her being home sick.,.,i said go back every few weeks for a visit but she says she misses the whole package.,.,mad if you ask me but..,we are all diffrent.,.

[sofa----king]

Croeso adref Iago xx

i hope that dont say.,.,..,
i cant wait to shag you .,.,lol
whatever it says im sure its something nice thnx.,.,

[Graham C]

Sorry to hear that Sofa, hope you feel better about everything soon. 

Best wishes

[Snatiramas]

What to say....really feel for you. Could you not run your business from the UK with regular time spent in Cyprus to top up your need for relaxation in the sun.

Whatever route you decide to take I hope it all works out for you. To be brave enough to follow a dream is something I have never been able to do so I have huge admiration for you.

[sofa----king]

thanks guys.,.,,ive been thinking of running the importing vehicles still when back in the uk as i have learnt so much about it now,,and its a real good earner,.,.,but it will brake my heart everytime i come back here on business.,.knowing i have to go back to uk.,.,i hope she might change her mind when we go back to the uk.,.,you never know.,.,

[marcro]

Moving a family is always a lot tougher than it seems and being homesick for the first year is natural. 

You have your business and love the environment you now have.  Does she have any interests or hobbies which allows her to meet people?

I think that it takes 3 years to settle from such a move and that is a lot to ask.  This is from the voice of experience, I moved my wife from the USA to England and it was tough on her.  If your wife does not have a hobby/interest it will be tough adjusting.  My wife got into horse riding and this made a big difference.

[sofa----king]

Moving a family is always a lot tougher than it seems and being homesick for the first year is natural. 

You have your business and love the environment you now have.  Does she have any interests or hobbies which allows her to meet people?

I think that it takes 3 years to settle from such a move and that is a lot to ask.  This is from the voice of experience, I moved my wife from the USA to England and it was tough on her.  If your wife does not have a hobby/interest it will be tough adjusting.  My wife got into horse riding and this made a big difference.

tried that one and fair doos she has stuck at it,she joined a country club gym and goes 5 mornings a week with my sister.,.she loves the lifestyle here but just cant seem to settle 100%,.,.thnx for advice and thinking .,.,

[RED-DOG]

James. You know whats what, so I can leave a lot of stuff unsaid....

It's a tough break, but where you're missus and your boy are concerned, you have to do what you have to do, end of. (Anyway, you're never going to find another beauty to love you now that you're fat and old.)

Take a little advice from a fool. If you're coming back, do it with a good heart. Have no regrets. Worse things could happen, believe me.

[sofa----king]

James. You know whats what, so I can leave a lot of stuff unsaid....

It's a tough break, but where you're missus and your boy are concerned, you have to do what you have to do, end of. (Anyway, you're never going to find another beauty to love you now that you're fat and old.)

Take a little advice from a fool. If you're coming back, do it with a good heart. Have no regrets. Worse things could happen, believe me.

how come you allways know what to say???
good heart no regrets.,.,.,
as to fat and old????well,.,ive lost 4 stone and im not 40 YET.,.,.,.,,hehehehehehe

[RED-DOG]

James. You know whats what, so I can leave a lot of stuff unsaid....

It's a tough break, but where you're missus and your boy are concerned, you have to do what you have to do, end of. (Anyway, you're never going to find another beauty to love you now that you're fat and old.)

Take a little advice from a fool. If you're coming back, do it with a good heart. Have no regrets. Worse things could happen, believe me.

how come you allways know what to say???
good heart no regrets.,.,.,
as to fat and old????well,.,ive lost 4 stone and im not 40 YET.,.,.,.,,hehehehehehe

You've lost 4 stone??? Pfft!!!

I don't believe you.

[turny]

best of luck sofa however things work out

[Dewi_cool]

Croeso adref Iago xx

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