Jim-D

[GreekStein]

Does anyone have his phone number pls?

Need to speak to him asap. Not happy.

[Claw75]

don't have his number but his girlfriend is due to drop any day, so might explain if he's been off the radar?

[TightEnd]

Or might have had the baby.

[GreekStein]

don't have his number but his girlfriend is due to drop any day, so might explain if he's been off the radar?

hmm thanks Claire.

Without going in to it that's no excuse. He should have been in contact with me.

[StuartHopkin]

don't have his number but his girlfriend is due to drop any day, so might explain if he's been off the radar?

hmm thanks Claire.

Without going in to it that's no excuse. He should have been in contact with me.

Cos, get over it, he isnt yours anymore. He's moved on and so should you. He is about to come a father and has obviously decided to put his experimental phase behind him.......

[Claw75]

don't have his number but his girlfriend is due to drop any day, so might explain if he's been off the radar?

hmm thanks Claire.

Without going in to it that's no excuse. He should have been in contact with me.

Cos, get over it, he isnt yours anymore. He's moved on and so should you. He is about to come a father and has obviously decided to put his experimental phase behind him.......

 

[GreekStein]

don't have his number but his girlfriend is due to drop any day, so might explain if he's been off the radar?

hmm thanks Claire.

Without going in to it that's no excuse. He should have been in contact with me.

Cos, get over it, he isnt yours anymore. He's moved on and so should you. He is about to come a father and has obviously decided to put his experimental phase behind him.......

He can do what he wants as soon as I get my money back

[MC]

Without going in to it that's no excuse. He should have been in contact with me.

Cos, get over it, he isnt yours anymore. He's moved on and so should you. He is about to come a father and has obviously decided to put his experimental phase behind him.......

^^lololol

[GreekStein]

Ok well all jokes aside this has been irritating the hell out of me and the only reason I've not said anything is because blonde is a nice community la de da but he's treated me a little unfairly considering I put my faith and money behind him. If somehow this is all some big confusion I'll be the first to put my hands up and apologise but I'm struggling to see how I could have got it wrong.

I'll detail what's happened as best as I can. Cliffs notes version > Mantis style paragraphs.

Jim puts up staking request for STTs.
I buy 100% for £400.
Jim only plays for like a week until some personal circumstances arise. (£150ish is lost in this time....this will become relevant later).
We exchange a few pms and I say I'm more than happy for him to take plenty of time away. Personal>poker.
Like a month, possibly longer later Jim says he isnt going to have time to play really and we very amicably agree the deal isn't really going to work for us and I ask for the remainder of the stake to be shipped back.
Jim says he will ship the full £400 back as he feels bad that he wasn't really able to fulfill what he initially proposed.
I send pm back saying this isn't necessary but will leave it up to him.
I don't have a stars account so can't do a transfer that way.
Weeks later I'm still waiting for my money.
I know Jim has a baby on the way so don't want to hassle the guy but the last few weeks the couple of pms I've sent haven't been answered and I still don't have my money.

...................

Since I know that Jim has in fact played online poker since our deal ended I feel a little aggrieved.
Add to this the fact that I know he has also been online. I've had a few pms telling me Jim has been on facebook chat so it feels like by not logging on to blonde he's been swerving me.
I struggle with the fact that having a baby due means over a 3 week period someone can't do a telephone transfer or go to the bank and sort this out.

Am I out of line to post this? I don't feel I am and I'm pretty pissed off.

[Claw75]

Jim says he will ship the full £400 back as he feels bad that he wasn't really able to fulfill what he initially proposed.
I send pm back saying this isn't necessary but will leave it up to him.

this is a bit ambigous?  I'm confused.

edit: ok I get it now.  I probably wouldn't have put this all on the open forum myself, but hope you get it sorted soon.  Sure it's just a misunderstanding.

[The_nun]

I think what is meant that Cos would be happy just to have the unplayed monies returned, ie just return the 250

[kukushkin88]

He means is the debt £250 or £400, that was left up to Jim-D.

fwiw Cos I know situations like this can be pretty life tilting but I'd give the fella a bit of time and I'm sure you'll get your money.

[GreekStein]

Jim says he will ship the full £400 back as he feels bad that he wasn't really able to fulfill what he initially proposed.
I send pm back saying this isn't necessary but will leave it up to him.

this is a bit ambigous?  I'm confused.

edit: ok I get it now.  I probably wouldn't have put this all on the open forum myself, but hope you get it sorted soon.  Sure it's just a misunderstanding.

I put it on the forum because I'm not one of these people who fears being a little out of line with the norm on these situations and think it should be known. This also came about as a result of the blonde staking forum so I feel other blondes have a right to know the situation.

I also posted it because after the inital post where I asked for Jim's number I received a pm from another blonde saying their are owed money by Jim. I didn't want to post it but I feel it's been an excessive amount of time regardless of anyone's personal circumstances for it to be ok with me.

Not that I ever owe anyone money but I couldn't have someones money and not make it one of my priorities to ship it back asap especially as I felt I was so decent about the whole thing.

[Claw75]

Jim says he will ship the full £400 back as he feels bad that he wasn't really able to fulfill what he initially proposed.
I send pm back saying this isn't necessary but will leave it up to him.

this is a bit ambigous?  I'm confused.

edit: ok I get it now.  I probably wouldn't have put this all on the open forum myself, but hope you get it sorted soon.  Sure it's just a misunderstanding.

I put it on the forum because I'm not one of these people who fears being a little out of line with the norm on these situations and think it should be known. This also came about as a result of the blonde staking forum so I feel other blondes have a right to know the situation.

I also posted it because after the inital post where I asked for Jim's number I received a pm from another blonde saying their are owed money by Jim. I didn't want to post it but I feel it's been an excessive amount of time regardless of anyone's personal circumstances for it to be ok with me.

Not that I ever owe anyone money but I couldn't have someones money and not make it one of my priorities to ship it back asap especially as I felt I was so decent about the whole thing.

that's fine and you're well within your rights - I only said I probably wouldn't, and only because you asked at the end   good luck

[Indestructable]

Maybe wrong, but you don't seem to have agreed how much he is paying you or when but feel annoyed that he hasn't paid up as agreed? 

I would give him some more time since starting the thread asking for a contact number before going in to the details as you have. Although as I  have been ripped off before, I know how you must feel.