Do you think I should accept this chick as a friend on FB?

[Woodsey]

I find it interesting when people talk about Thailand the conversation ALWAYS gets onto the subject of ladyboys. Its interesting how many blokes want to talk about that, I think that interest is reflected by the sheer amount of ladyboys in the beach resorts and no shortage of blokes willing to have a punt with them.

Of course they all tell you to your face 'nah not interested mate', someone is lying! 

[ManuelsMum]

Go with your very first, natural instinct I think. Pretty sure we have a subconscious 'm/f' detector in our brains. Certain discrete features in an individual's face, like nose shape, brow ridge, jawline, could be more 'feminine' in shape in some blokes than in some women, and vice versa. However when you shove it all together, the brain is still able to work it out quite well from the whole picture. You can get confused a bit sometimes, if they've had filler implants, or are good with makeup. In that case, check out the hands, hips, shoulders, Adam's apple. Failing that, do a 'Crocodile Dundee'
I also think that as they get older, a lot of women's features start becoming a bit more masculine.

When you hit the dating scene in your 40s again, important to you will these things become

Or you could just simply ask them, they won't generally lie as they want you to like them for what they are. All the stories you here about people shipping ladyboys by accident are always by people that are too pissed up to observe or ask the right question. Or maybe it wasn't an accident, they don't just want to admit it

Fair point Woodsey, I think there are some who want to go with a straight bloke and become 'fully heterosexual woman' in their own eyes. Given that the numbers of straight men seeking post-op transexual women are quite limited (I'm guessing), I think some would seek to disguise their original gender originally, wait til a relationship had developed, then spill the plums.

fyp

I knew there was a word, couldn't quite put my finger on it.

There's a bit in Crocodile Dundee where he's talking naively to a transvestite and when it's pointed out to him, he can't quite believe it so goes in for a grab to confirm for himself. Always embarrassing when you try this and you're wrong :/



I think I could pull it off...

[Woodsey]

Go with your very first, natural instinct I think. Pretty sure we have a subconscious 'm/f' detector in our brains. Certain discrete features in an individual's face, like nose shape, brow ridge, jawline, could be more 'feminine' in shape in some blokes than in some women, and vice versa. However when you shove it all together, the brain is still able to work it out quite well from the whole picture. You can get confused a bit sometimes, if they've had filler implants, or are good with makeup. In that case, check out the hands, hips, shoulders, Adam's apple. Failing that, do a 'Crocodile Dundee'
I also think that as they get older, a lot of women's features start becoming a bit more masculine.

When you hit the dating scene in your 40s again, important to you will these things become

Or you could just simply ask them, they won't generally lie as they want you to like them for what they are. All the stories you here about people shipping ladyboys by accident are always by people that are too pissed up to observe or ask the right question. Or maybe it wasn't an accident, they don't just want to admit it

Fair point Woodsey, I think there are some who want to go with a straight bloke and become 'fully heterosexual woman' in their own eyes. Given that the numbers of straight men seeking post-op transexual women are quite limited (I'm guessing), I think some would seek to disguise their original gender originally, wait til a relationship had developed, then spill the plums.

fyp

I knew there was a word, couldn't quite put my finger on it.

There's a bit in Crocodile Dundee where he's talking naively to a transvestite and when it's pointed out to him, he can't quite believe it so goes in for a grab to confirm for himself. Always embarrassing when you try this and you're wrong :/



I think I could pull it off...

LOL not seen that, don't like the guy but that's not bad actually.

What I was saying about the voice you can hear there, ever so subtle camp gay lilt to it. Once you've tuned into what your listening for, it gives away with the really good looking ones.

[EvilPie]

On what planet is that subtle?

How anybody can get fooled by that I'll never know?

[Woodsey]

On what planet is that subtle?

How anybody can get fooled by that I'll never know?

All other tells aside, most would miss it if I didn't point it out I promise you. Most only listen for a deep voice nothing else.

[EvilPie]

On what planet is that subtle?

How anybody can get fooled by that I'll never know?

All other tells aside, most would miss it I didn't point it out I promise you. Most only listen for a deep voice nothing else.

Maybe it's easier for me because I don't find them too attractive anyway.

Some people might be blinkered by the long legs and tight body so just somehow ignore the voice.

If that bird in the picture I posted earlier had the same voice and mannerisms as that lady boy I probably wouldn't notice because I'd be too busy trying to get in her pants.

[Woodsey]

On what planet is that subtle?

How anybody can get fooled by that I'll never know?

All other tells aside, most would miss it I didn't point it out I promise you. Most only listen for a deep voice nothing else.

Maybe it's easier for me because I don't find them too attractive anyway.

Some people might be blinkered by the long legs and tight body so just somehow ignore the voice.

If that bird in the picture I posted earlier had the same voice and mannerisms as that lady boy I probably wouldn't notice because I'd be too busy trying to get in her pants.

Yeah, well only the one on the right in the salon is passable from a looks point of view, in terms of possibly looking like a girl anyway.

[Solaris]

Has anyonE ever been with a lady boy. I have a very hetro sexual mate who is married and wondered what it was like and a decent experience. Obv to save him embarrassment I can pass on any advice to him

I might have.

 

[Woodsey]

Friend of mine nearly got caught out last week, would have taken her/him home if the info hadn't been offered up. The guy doesn't drink either and has been around the block so know's what the crack is.

I'll let you guess which one is a bloke 

[Girgy85]

Friend of mine nearly got caught out last week, would have taken her/him home if the info hadn't been offered up. The guy doesn't drink either and has been around the block so know's what the crack is.

I'll let you guess which one is a bloke 

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Bloke is 3?

[EvilPie]

This is why I'm so safe in this whole lady boy thing.

They all look like dudes to me!

[Woodsey]

This is why I'm so safe in this whole lady boy thing.

They all look like dudes to me!

LOL, you would spend your entire life being suspicious over there if that's the case.

[smashedagain]

i could stand up in court and say it was an honest mistake

[EvilPie]

This is why I'm so safe in this whole lady boy thing.

They all look like dudes to me!

LOL, you would spend your entire life being suspicious over there if that's the case.

Can't make an accurate judgement on the picture provided either.

I don't think 3 is a bloke. The arms look very feminine.

I'd have to say it's a flip between 1 and 2 but you can't see enough of 1 to be sure.

If I was put in a spot I'd say that 2 is the fella.

[smashedagain]

This is why I'm so safe in this whole lady boy thing.

They all look like dudes to me!

LOL, you would spend your entire life being suspicious over there if that's the case.

Can't make an accurate judgement on the picture provided either.

I don't think 3 is a bloke. The arms look very feminine.

I'd have to say it's a flip between 1 and 2 but you can't see enough of 1 to be sure.

If I was put in a spot I'd say that 2 is the fella.

have you gone 1  2   3   then as if you do girgys  2    3     1   it could leave you in a world of sh*t