Maybe not a good thing in some respects....
That's not a bad thing because it's not out of fear, it's out of respect.
I'm afraid to have to admit that I think it is actually out of fear more than respect. He also knows I can make his life a misery with groundings and confiscations for months on end!
It took me quite a long time to learn, but both my kids now know that if I threaten something, and it gets carried out - I stay the course and don't give in. One of the worst things I think a parent can do is threaten something, then either not carry it out or carry it out but not see it through.