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« Reply #30 on: September 10, 2008, 11:16:56 AM »

She knows she's lying.You know she's lying. I would not offer a refund., Just offer a credit note to rebook if she wishes.
Given the nature of you're business, if i was her I wouldn't be re-booking in a hurry!

That's exactly what I would do too.  Quick email stating whilst it's not your normal practice, as a courtesy you will arrange a credit at your clinic for her which expires in 30 days.  I doubt she'll ever take you up on it and she can't complain because you've given her the option.
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« Reply #31 on: September 10, 2008, 11:20:59 AM »

Why are you refunding her anything?

Just say you prefer to deal with clients who act in a more professional manner and supply her with the details of the cat lady.

Or am I missing something?

Because however much I know she's lying it will always be a case of she said/I said. She has said (in her first email to me today before I had even responded) that she intends to go via her card company to get an enquiry and possible refund which automatically costs me as a retailer £60 whether her query stands up or not. I'm in a loose loose situation - bizarely I can't afford to keep her payment!



Someone in your line of work should NEVER EVER want to be in that situation Wink
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« Reply #32 on: September 10, 2008, 11:33:30 AM »

your in a no win situation here, you will loose money if she takes action to recover the fee,do you really want her as a client, she has either bottled out or feeling a lot better.
you know she lied and she knows you know. so you dont have to prove anything to her. just act concerned for her health.
i would just refund her fee,sending her a email
sorry you where unable to attend your appointment,i have refunded your fee, if you are still not feeling 100%, i strongly advise you to see your doctor as soon as possible
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« Reply #33 on: September 10, 2008, 11:33:49 AM »

She knows she's lying.You know she's lying. I would not offer a refund., Just offer a credit note to rebook if she wishes.
Given the nature of you're business, if i was her I wouldn't be re-booking in a hurry!

That's exactly what I would do too.  Quick email stating whilst it's not your normal practice, as a courtesy you will arrange a credit at your clinic for her which expires in 30 days.  I doubt she'll ever take you up on it and she can't complain because you've given her the option.

I like this option
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« Reply #34 on: September 10, 2008, 12:07:33 PM »

She knows she's lying.You know she's lying. I would not offer a refund., Just offer a credit note to rebook if she wishes.
Given the nature of you're business, if i was her I wouldn't be re-booking in a hurry!

That's exactly what I would do too.  Quick email stating whilst it's not your normal practice, as a courtesy you will arrange a credit at your clinic for her which expires in 30 days.  I doubt she'll ever take you up on it and she can't complain because you've given her the option.

I like this option

In my experience, rather than lose the money, people will take you up on the offer of a credit note.  Which is not a problem with a reasonable human being.  But from a personal viewpoint, if someone is a pain in the butt, and tries to get out of paying, they are just as likely to complain after the service/treatment on a total facticious complaint, and try to get a refund anyway.

A few years ago, a chap came into my shop with a sob story about a poorly friend of his who was so ill she could hardly move.   She needed some furniture made to a special size, but was so poor she couldn't afford the brand leader, who specialised in it.  I 'phoned 'round and found a middling manufacturer who was willing to do it as a personal favour to me.

The stuff got deliverered to a lady wearing strangley provocative clothes ( according to my drivers - who know a tart when they see one ), who proceeded to check every square inch of the covering fabric for flaws.  Because of the special size, the fabric was slightly oversize, which the manufacturer, instead of trimming, had folded back and stapled.  She snagged her finger on the staple, so the lads brought the goods back, the manufacturer put it right, and we delivered the now perfect goods back to the poor ill lass.

Long story short, she sued us for the cut she recieved and all the personal anguish we had put her through.  ( it is possible she might have drawn blood on the staple, but the lads didn't see any sign of it when they left ).  She expected a full refund of her money, but expected us to leave her the goods, because they were no use to us, seeing as how they were used goods and we couldn't sell them on.  Yeah right.  Financially she's right, but let her get away with that ? Bob Hope.

Then when the lads went to collect the goods, as arranged, she was too ill to answer the door.

So by falling for the sob story, and trying to do someone a favour, I
a) upset a good supplier of mine
b) lost the cost of the goods
c) spent 4 x delivery charges.

If this 'lady' is giving off bad vibes, sometimes it's best to get out from under, as quickly as possible.

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« Reply #35 on: September 10, 2008, 02:47:24 PM »

I'll put £10 in with Andrew on the condition we get all comedy correspondence on the thread!
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« Reply #36 on: September 10, 2008, 03:07:28 PM »

I'll put £10 in with Andrew on the condition we get to write the emails

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« Reply #37 on: September 10, 2008, 03:19:57 PM »

Should'nt this be on the staking thread?
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« Reply #38 on: September 10, 2008, 03:41:44 PM »

I'll put £10 in with Andrew on the condition we get to write the emails

FYP

Well was kinda assuming they would have your input! Lets get Jungle on board as well
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« Reply #39 on: September 10, 2008, 03:44:16 PM »

Ok - so how about offering her a credit voucher as a goodwill gesture to be used within 30 days for a colonic treatment and non refundable? I don't want to have her book in and subsequently cancel and gets a refund in anycase.
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« Reply #40 on: September 10, 2008, 04:05:31 PM »

Yep.  That's the way to go about it.  Good will and all that jazz.  30 days non-refundable. 

If she still gives you hassle, then return the money and be rid of her.  Karma will pay her a visit one day, regardless.
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« Reply #41 on: September 10, 2008, 04:13:04 PM »

Ok - so how about offering her a credit voucher as a goodwill gesture to be used within 30 days for a colonic treatment and non refundable? I don't want to have her book in and subsequently cancel and gets a refund in anycase.

If you can stand having her posterior staring at you for an hour or however long it takes, it's got to be the way to go - that way you don't lose financially, and you come out of it smelling of roses as well. But if your gut  says you don't want anything to do with her, then stand by your instinct.
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