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i think you should read again what ive wrote and maybe youll understand that what im trying to do is convey the idea that keeping a situation like this private, will in the long run be far more rewarding and character building than anything else achievable by this type of thread. which i feel is as ive already said i dont you can prewarn over, obviously some disagre. so i see it mostly as being vindictive and im trying to make the point that i feel youd be better off not behaving in that manner.
ive had a few pms with brian on this subject and im very sure he doesnt feel that ive had a dig at him
Sorry, but what do you see as being vindictive - mine or his behaviour?
Either way, suggesting on a public forum that the author of the post needs to work on his/her character and implying that his/her behaviour was vindictive is very classy indeed;)
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as i dont know you and the only thing i could have and was replying to was to was your 1st post im confused as to why you may think i was referring to your post as being vindictive. what ive tried and obviously failed to suggest (without any intent on besmirching anyones character) is that taking an over view in these situations and rising above them whilst dealing with it on a personal level is far more rewarding to the injured party in the long term than making it a public issue. im now very aware that few seem to agree with me.
perhaps theres a certain amount of things getting lost in tranalation? take your last post for example-the last line you say how classy my behaviour has been in what i take to be an ironic fashion. though as i say from my point of view ive only had the intent to assist and not be critical. so i find myself feeling misunderstood and possibly maligned unfairly but im sure you see me in a far different light ; )
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It all depends on what lamps are available in the store....
Your reply makes more sense now, thank you:)
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