Blackpool rake table Saturday night. I sat down late (4.30am ish), very lively game. Seat 1 is a very drunk (and possibly mentally infirm) novice, Seat 3 is an experienced player. The two guys know each other (I know Seat 3 but not seat 1)
Seat 1 has done his bollox in (in addition to his liver) and Seat 3 is lending him money across the table, from his stack (he has hundreds in front and covers everyone else there by plenty). Seat 3 it seems has now lent Seat 1 £600 in total.
I asked seat 3 if he is comfortable playing his own money across the table and he replied he can pull it outof his pocket if I prefer. As I've sat down with a oner it's hardly relevant as he'd have to double me up about 7 times to start owing me anything, which I pointed out. I've seen a few rows though when players start betting into each other in circumstances like this, which is the reason I asked.
(The next few hands ended up HU with Seat 1 and 3, one example being seat 1 betting into

all the way on a board of q7qA9. Seat 1 shows a7, seat 3 qk. )
Anyway, the point of this post is Seat 1 then gets into a big pot with 4 other players and wins with a full house with 10 6 in his hand. I was in the pot and lost with a flush.
Seat 1 then starts to pay Seat 3 back, passing £400 across the table.
I said I felt that was wrong - seat 1 won the money off other players and should keep the cash in front of him until he leaves, obviously to give other players the chance to get it back.

said I was wrong (quite a few times) but he wouldnt argue with me as I was losing (Although he did)... I'd just cashed for 3rd in the comp so was still up on the night and wasnt losing much sleep over 100 on the cash table, but I didnt argue the point as I felt it may look like sour grapes on my part.
Seat 1s mate who had been sat with seat 3 chatting then went to seat 1 and tried to take £400 cash off the table "to look after it for him". He was told to leave it in play by the dealer.
My question is, if a player lends to another player across the table, can he then ask for it back once that player wins? I do understand the money isnt leaving the table but to my mind i would rather have my cash in fron t of the loose drunk who can't see his cards to be in with a chance of taking it back?