Apology to Tikay.

[Ismene]

Ok, I went to post in the thread last week when I saw this, but it got locked moments before I got the chance. As this thread is going down the same path as that one, I will post this here instead. Just for you to draw your own conclusions to.

Greekstein in last weeks thread :

"I haven't posted on the matter because I will prob be questioned shortly by the police and didn't want to say anything which may interfere with any investigation so in keeping with this whole thread I'll be somewhat vague.

However, I was on the night out with everyone (including the parties involved) the night before the incident took place and the video was subsequently sent to me after. People can know because I'm not hiding from the fact I'm one of those it was sent to.

I'm not proud of the fact I didn't say anything but from a personal standpoint, and I think I speak on behalf of most/all of those it was sent to - I think some of us who were sent the video were shocked by it and just didn't know how to react. It's the first time I'd ever seen something of it's nature and as stupid as it sounds, I thought it was maybe best forgotten."


Greekstein in this thread http://blondepoker.com/forum/index.php?topic=47546.msg1161862#msg1161862 on April 09, 2010. A good 6 months after "the video" (and Laxie didn't know about it at this time).

"LOL Laxie - Shieldsy's the biggest nutter I've ever met. Absolutely hilarious, but no boundaries. Just cos he was a gentleman to you doesn't mean he's not capable of writing those posts. In fact I doubt there's much that guy isn't capable of! I've seen some of the stuff he's done by video to my phone - nutter!"

Sorry I got really annoyed by Cos' post on the matter and had to make that point.

[GreekStein]

Nice to see the concerns from two longstanding blondes taken seriously. [  ]

What has the mod done in terms of blonde that you believe means they she be gotten rid of ?

As far as i see she fell out with Kev and it got nasty. Aside from both being posters and mods i fail to see what a personal dispute has to do with it.

Have you raised any concerns apart from she pissed off my mate ?

There is also the attitude from Tikay which aiui has always been that if you don't like it then go elsewhere.

Sandy

Sandy,

My comments are irrespective of what has happened to Kev in terms of his ban. Fact of the matter is this: she's a mod and acted in a wholy inappropriate way. Guaran-damn-teed if it was Boshi or Bongo etc they would have been stripped of their modship by now.

[henrik777]

Nice to see the concerns from two longstanding blondes taken seriously. [  ]

What has the mod done in terms of blonde that you believe means they she be gotten rid of ?

As far as i see she fell out with Kev and it got nasty. Aside from both being posters and mods i fail to see what a personal dispute has to do with it.

Have you raised any concerns apart from she pissed off my mate ?

There is also the attitude from Tikay which aiui has always been that if you don't like it then go elsewhere.

Sandy

Sandy,

My comments are irrespective of what has happened to Kev in terms of his ban. Fact of the matter is this: she's a mod and acted in a wholy inappropriate way. Guaran-damn-teed if it was Boshi or Bongo etc they would have been stripped of their modship by now.

I'm not saying you're wrong. But from what i've read (not what you may know) it doesn't appear she did in terms of blonde.

From the outside looking in she has not abused the mod status.

Sandy

[mouth]

I guess it depends what your definition of "wrong" is.

If it's wrong to find information on your ex's PC, after an acrimoniuos split - and pass that on to the person it involves, then sack her for sure.

Of course if the information is highly offensive, a massive breach of someone's privacy and has been posted on Youtube and generally passed into the public domain for other forum members and the general public to view, all without that person's knowledge then how can it be wrong? To my mind it's making a massive wrong right - letting the victim know what has gone on and not leaving her in blissful ignorance, unaware of what has gone on without her consent and without her knowledge. How is that wrong?

The people who viewed the video all now claim they wanted to tell the victim but didn't know how to - well guess what guys - someone saved you the embarrassment of having to tell her yourself. In essence, this mod did what you claim you all wanted to do - so surely a thank you is required, rather than castigation.

If you're all genuinely without blame in this sordid episode then better to sit back and shut up I think. Conside how you would feel if it was your mum, your sister or your girlfriend? Would you think it was funny then? If it was your mum and the mod had told her what had happened and who was laughing at her, surely you would want to thank the mod for helping?

If this hadhappened to me I would have paid a visit to each and every single one of the "men" invloved in both he the making and the distribution of this film and castrated every motherfucking last one of ya.

Think it's time to stop trying to blame people on the sidelines and look at who the real victim is here.

[outragous76]

the fact that Jane is still a mod is a joke and makes an absolute laughing stock of the other Mods proetcting her

its amazing how a woman can make men change their judgement on things!

[Bongo]

Guaran-damn-teed if it was Boshi or Bongo etc they would have been stripped of their modship by now.

Slight technicality - I'm not actually a mod.

[mouth]

Ok, I went to post in the thread last week when I saw this, but it got locked moments before I got the chance. As this thread is going down the same path as that one, I will post this here instead. Just for you to draw your own conclusions to.

Greekstein in last weeks thread :

"I haven't posted on the matter because I will prob be questioned shortly by the police and didn't want to say anything which may interfere with any investigation so in keeping with this whole thread I'll be somewhat vague.

However, I was on the night out with everyone (including the parties involved) the night before the incident took place and the video was subsequently sent to me after. People can know because I'm not hiding from the fact I'm one of those it was sent to.

I'm not proud of the fact I didn't say anything but from a personal standpoint, and I think I speak on behalf of most/all of those it was sent to - I think some of us who were sent the video were shocked by it and just didn't know how to react. It's the first time I'd ever seen something of it's nature and as stupid as it sounds, I thought it was maybe best forgotten."


Greekstein in this thread http://blondepoker.com/forum/index.php?topic=47546.msg1161862#msg1161862 on April 09, 2010. A good 6 months after "the video" (and Laxie didn't know about it at this time).

"LOL Laxie - Shieldsy's the biggest nutter I've ever met. Absolutely hilarious, but no boundaries. Just cos he was a gentleman to you doesn't mean he's not capable of writing those posts. In fact I doubt there's much that guy isn't capable of! I've seen some of the stuff he's done by video to my phone - nutter!"

Sorry I got really annoyed by Cos' post on the matter and had to make that point.

BOOM my thoughts exactly - and Turny also makes a couple of comments in this thread that clearly point out he knew what had happened and was laughing as well. It was all so funny then wasn't it? But now the police are involved over what was a serious sexual assault - suddenly you're not laughing anymore?

[turny]

Ok, I went to post in the thread last week when I saw this, but it got locked moments before I got the chance. As this thread is going down the same path as that one, I will post this here instead. Just for you to draw your own conclusions to.

Greekstein in last weeks thread :

"I haven't posted on the matter because I will prob be questioned shortly by the police and didn't want to say anything which may interfere with any investigation so in keeping with this whole thread I'll be somewhat vague.

However, I was on the night out with everyone (including the parties involved) the night before the incident took place and the video was subsequently sent to me after. People can know because I'm not hiding from the fact I'm one of those it was sent to.

I'm not proud of the fact I didn't say anything but from a personal standpoint, and I think I speak on behalf of most/all of those it was sent to - I think some of us who were sent the video were shocked by it and just didn't know how to react. It's the first time I'd ever seen something of it's nature and as stupid as it sounds, I thought it was maybe best forgotten."


Greekstein in this thread http://blondepoker.com/forum/index.php?topic=47546.msg1161862#msg1161862 on April 09, 2010. A good 6 months after "the video" (and Laxie didn't know about it at this time).

"LOL Laxie - Shieldsy's the biggest nutter I've ever met. Absolutely hilarious, but no boundaries. Just cos he was a gentleman to you doesn't mean he's not capable of writing those posts. In fact I doubt there's much that guy isn't capable of! I've seen some of the stuff he's done by video to my phone - nutter!"

Sorry I got really annoyed by Cos' post on the matter and had to make that point.

BOOM my thoughts exactly - and Turny also makes a couple of comments in this thread that clearly point out he knew what had happened and was laughing as well. It was all so funny then wasn't it? But now the police are involved over what was a serious sexual assault - suddenly you're not laughing anymore?

lighten me?
what comments were they on this thread please en

[Claw75]

Nice to see the concerns from two longstanding blondes taken seriously. [  ]

What has the mod done in terms of blonde that you believe means they she be gotten rid of ?

As far as i see she fell out with Kev and it got nasty. Aside from both being posters and mods i fail to see what a personal dispute has to do with it.

Have you raised any concerns apart from she pissed off my mate ?

There is also the attitude from Tikay which aiui has always been that if you don't like it then go elsewhere.

Sandy

Sandy,

My comments are irrespective of what has happened to Kev in terms of his ban. Fact of the matter is this: she's a mod and acted in a wholy inappropriate way. Guaran-damn-teed if it was Boshi or Bongo etc they would have been stripped of their modship by now.

I'm not saying you're wrong. But from what i've read (not what you may know) it doesn't appear she did in terms of blonde.

From the outside looking in she has not abused the mod status.

Sandy

I think the issue is that people holding positions as moderators have to be respected and trusted by the members - presumably those are two of the main criteria taken into consideration when mods are chosen.  A lot of members have voiced concerns over the issue of Jane's continuing modship, and for that reason alone those concerns should be answered on the forum, whatever decision is taken.  just imho of course.

[henrik777]

Nice to see the concerns from two longstanding blondes taken seriously. [  ]

What has the mod done in terms of blonde that you believe means they she be gotten rid of ?

As far as i see she fell out with Kev and it got nasty. Aside from both being posters and mods i fail to see what a personal dispute has to do with it.

Have you raised any concerns apart from she pissed off my mate ?

There is also the attitude from Tikay which aiui has always been that if you don't like it then go elsewhere.

Sandy

Sandy,

My comments are irrespective of what has happened to Kev in terms of his ban. Fact of the matter is this: she's a mod and acted in a wholy inappropriate way. Guaran-damn-teed if it was Boshi or Bongo etc they would have been stripped of their modship by now.

I'm not saying you're wrong. But from what i've read (not what you may know) it doesn't appear she did in terms of blonde.

From the outside looking in she has not abused the mod status.

Sandy

I think the issue is that people holding positions as moderators have to be respected and trusted by the members - presumably those are two of the main criteria taken into consideration when mods are chosen.  A lot of members have voiced concerns over the issue of Jane's continuing modship, and for that reason alone those concerns should be answered on the forum, whatever decision is taken.  just imho of course.

If blonde came out and said Jane is untrustworthy it would open up a potentially expensive hole would it not ?

Sandy

[henrik777]

Guaran-damn-teed if it was Boshi or Bongo etc they would have been stripped of their modship by now.

Slight technicality - I'm not actually a mod.

??

Sandy

[turny]

Ok, I went to post in the thread last week when I saw this, but it got locked moments before I got the chance. As this thread is going down the same path as that one, I will post this here instead. Just for you to draw your own conclusions to.

Greekstein in last weeks thread :

"I haven't posted on the matter because I will prob be questioned shortly by the police and didn't want to say anything which may interfere with any investigation so in keeping with this whole thread I'll be somewhat vague.

However, I was on the night out with everyone (including the parties involved) the night before the incident took place and the video was subsequently sent to me after. People can know because I'm not hiding from the fact I'm one of those it was sent to.

I'm not proud of the fact I didn't say anything but from a personal standpoint, and I think I speak on behalf of most/all of those it was sent to - I think some of us who were sent the video were shocked by it and just didn't know how to react. It's the first time I'd ever seen something of it's nature and as stupid as it sounds, I thought it was maybe best forgotten."


Greekstein in this thread http://blondepoker.com/forum/index.php?topic=47546.msg1161862#msg1161862 on April 09, 2010. A good 6 months after "the video" (and Laxie didn't know about it at this time).

"LOL Laxie - Shieldsy's the biggest nutter I've ever met. Absolutely hilarious, but no boundaries. Just cos he was a gentleman to you doesn't mean he's not capable of writing those posts. In fact I doubt there's much that guy isn't capable of! I've seen some of the stuff he's done by video to my phone - nutter!"

Sorry I got really annoyed by Cos' post on the matter and had to make that point.

BOOM my thoughts exactly - and Turny also makes a couple of comments in this thread that clearly point out he knew what had happened and was laughing as well. It was all so funny then wasn't it? But now the police are involved over what was a serious sexual assault - suddenly you're not laughing anymore?

where exactly does it say i knew about any video and that i was laughing myself?

absolute bullshit from your mouth to your typing finger

[snoopy1239]

I'm not sure how Ginger can be defended. She invaded the privacy of Kev, and everyone else who has ever sent an email, pm or had a conversation with him. The fact that she found something incriminating is irrelevant to that fact. Personally, I have likely sent pms to Kev that I wouldn't want read, but there's a good chance they were, and for that person to continue as a mod is pretty disgraceful and a poor reflection on a community that I used to hold in such high regard.

[Claw75]

Nice to see the concerns from two longstanding blondes taken seriously. [  ]

What has the mod done in terms of blonde that you believe means they she be gotten rid of ?

As far as i see she fell out with Kev and it got nasty. Aside from both being posters and mods i fail to see what a personal dispute has to do with it.

Have you raised any concerns apart from she pissed off my mate ?

There is also the attitude from Tikay which aiui has always been that if you don't like it then go elsewhere.

Sandy

Sandy,

My comments are irrespective of what has happened to Kev in terms of his ban. Fact of the matter is this: she's a mod and acted in a wholy inappropriate way. Guaran-damn-teed if it was Boshi or Bongo etc they would have been stripped of their modship by now.

I'm not saying you're wrong. But from what i've read (not what you may know) it doesn't appear she did in terms of blonde.

From the outside looking in she has not abused the mod status.

Sandy

I think the issue is that people holding positions as moderators have to be respected and trusted by the members - presumably those are two of the main criteria taken into consideration when mods are chosen.  A lot of members have voiced concerns over the issue of Jane's continuing modship, and for that reason alone those concerns should be answered on the forum, whatever decision is taken.  just imho of course.

If blonde came out and said Jane is untrustworthy it would open up a potentially expensive hole would it not ?

Sandy

i'm not saying they should or they shouldn't, but a number have members have said they are uncomfortable with her continuing modship, and i think an answer should be forthcoming one way or the other.

edit: i should declare a vested interest here actually lest people think i'm just being sly.  an msn conversation i had with kev was also shared with a third party by jane, so i'm a little bit personally peeved.

[turny]

I'm not sure how Ginger can be defended. She invaded the privacy of Kev, and everyone else who has ever sent an email, pm or had a conversation with him. The fact that she found something incriminating is irrelevant to that fact. Personally, I have likely sent pms to Kev that I wouldn't want read, but there's a good chance they were, and for that person to continue as a mod is pretty disgraceful and a poor reflection on a community that I used to hold in such high regard.

at last someone who speaks sense and is better at expressing it than me