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« Reply #30 on: November 25, 2012, 10:47:52 PM »

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Don't drink that pint of top shelf on your 21st birthday!
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« Reply #31 on: November 25, 2012, 10:50:25 PM »

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Nothing keeping you here, go on your travels, even if your mates have said no.  now or never...

Oh, and she isn't the one...you already know that, don't waste the next 3 years.
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« Reply #32 on: November 25, 2012, 11:12:28 PM »

Did Gray ever do a 2000+ edition?
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« Reply #33 on: November 26, 2012, 04:58:04 AM »

Prob be more selfish also


Doubt that'll be a good idea.
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« Reply #34 on: November 26, 2012, 04:59:29 AM »

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Don't drink that pint of top shelf on your 21st birthday!

I did this once.

I remember nothing, except running down the middle of a busy road at about midnight screaming "I don't know the fucking way home!"

Scary stuff

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« Reply #35 on: November 26, 2012, 06:14:54 AM »

this seems more like a regret thread than an advice thread!!

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« Reply #36 on: November 26, 2012, 08:16:24 AM »

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Don't save all your money just so you can spend it when you retire. Keep a little but be sure to have fun along the way.


Also, don't get a celebrity's face tattooed on your body.
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« Reply #37 on: November 26, 2012, 08:42:35 AM »

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Learn quickly to distinguish between what is and is not worth worrying or getting angry about.

Count you blessings.

Value your friends and family.

Respect everyone. Go out of your way to be nice to people.

Look in awe at the world around you. Make a concious effort to notice your surroundings. See everything, (Even the seemingly mundane, familiar things) with tourist's eyes.

Realise just how lucky you are to have such luxuries as good health, a full belly, a roof over your head, and the freedom to choose your own path in life. (I know it sounds corny, but these things are but a distant dream for the majority of the world's population).

Smile.


 
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« Reply #38 on: November 26, 2012, 09:06:32 AM »

this seems more like a regret thread than an advice thread!!

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Tis a good point, most advice is probably thinly veiled regret anyway.Perhaps the better question should be what is your advice to a 21 year old now?

Mine would be something along the lines of 'embrace failure and put in a ridiculous amount of hours practicing whatever it is you love if you want to be successful at it'

Oh, and women don't like it when you point out they have large breasts.
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« Reply #39 on: November 26, 2012, 10:30:30 AM »

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If you want to ever grow a proper beard now is the time - it'll go white waaaaaay before you thought it would.
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« Reply #40 on: November 26, 2012, 10:32:19 AM »

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Learn quickly to distinguish between what is and is not worth worrying or getting angry about.

Count you blessings.

Value your friends and family.

Respect everyone. Go out of your way to be nice to people.

Look in awe at the world around you. Make a concious effort to notice your surroundings. See everything, (Even the seemingly mundane, familiar things) with tourist's eyes.

Realise just how lucky you are to have such luxuries as good health, a full belly, a roof over your head, and the freedom to choose your own path in life. (I know it sounds corny, but these things are but a distant dream for the majority of the world's population).

Smile.
 

tried to think of something but why post when Red does it better, same as above really just i am younger Smiley
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« Reply #41 on: November 26, 2012, 10:41:33 AM »


Shame he came back really, he always owns these threads, every bloody time.......

I was going to Post, but I changed my mind, it seemed pointless - most 21 year olds are not amenable to advice from elders. I'm pretty damn sure I would not listen to advice when I was 21 - except from other 21 year olds.

Funny old world, eh?
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« Reply #42 on: November 26, 2012, 11:07:04 AM »

C'mon guys 'mould me' (sounds wrong hahahaha).

*Some point made on here are actually quite good / interesting btw,deffinatly worth taking on board.
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« Reply #43 on: November 26, 2012, 11:12:06 AM »

I actually don't regret anything in life, there are a handful of things I could have done which I still look back on wishing maybe I had, but ultimately these potential regrets led to where I am today and being pretty happy with how things have turned out thus far, had I done said things I might not have the good stuff I do have. For example University was a complete waste of time for me, I didn't enjoy it, didn't make any friends for life like a lot of people do, it didn't directly help with my career, it cost me loads of money and was also a big financial opportunity cost. However wasting those three years did make me appreciate my time more now, appreciate my friends more, appreciate money more and probably gave me a sense of urgency which I think is a strength of mine.

I'm probs lucky in the regard that I have never done anything major I truly regret, which makes it easier to be philosophical about all this.  
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« Reply #44 on: November 26, 2012, 01:42:25 PM »

I started playing guitar at 14 and by 16 there was no doubt in my mind I was going to be a rock star.
By 21 I was probably a good enough guitarist, but I went about it all wrong.

I'd tell myself not to treat being a musician as being an alternative to having a job, treat it as having a creative job with a big corperation.
As such, treat everything you do as an unsigned band as a job interview and as contributing to your portfolio to try to get signed.
Every flier, gig, demo, etc all counts towards getting that dream job.
Also, be far more ruthless in terms of band mates.
Know what the band's direction / style / image is all about and get the right members.

Don't try and please all of the people all of the time. Pick a genre and nail it. If you try and cover all bases, most of the audience will only like a small proportion of your set.

Don't carry any dead weight. It's too competitive an industry, and you're only as good as your weakest member.
Move. At a push, Nottingham might have done, but realistically, if you're going to get signed, it'll be in London, so gigs in the capital are vital.

Don't sell demos, give them away.
spend the money on producing CD singles, with good photos, contact details and biogs and give them to anyone that wants one.
It was pre-myspace / youtube / facebook, but if still not signed when they come along, hit them hard.

Don't give up, cut your hair and get a proper job too soon. You have to be able to get in the back of a van with your gear at the drop of a hat an play a gig anywhere if it will get you in fron to f the right people.

Keep writing all / most of the songs, and don't make any stupid agreements to register everything as joint written by the band. Composers get paid much more. Credit where it's due.

oh, and I'm 39 and still gigging Smiley
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