Questioning this sort of thing suggests you don't have the strongest knowledge of the maths behind the game, and perhaps taking some time off playing and spending some time studying this sort of thing might do you some good?
I'm also more looking for advise on the thought of 3 betting pre rather than should I be folding pre.
In this particular spot? I'd want a reason to 3 bet here, and I'd be doing it for value with the intention of calling off if that was the case. I just don't see a reason to deviate from the standard mathematically correct decision here, without a specific read on the raiser.
Questioning this sort of thing suggests you don't have the strongest knowledge of the maths behind the game, and perhaps taking some time off playing and spending some time studying this sort of thing might do you some good?
You offering?

Haha we can talk on skype whenever you want, but as I've said I'm not the best person for this sort of thing, not yet a sicko :p