Reading a good book, or just lying on the sofa randomly playing music on the sonos (preferably in the summer so can have windows open and music turned up, its fun to share)
I hate it when people force their music on me. Why do you feel the need to do it?
But I don't live anywhere near you i don't think, I don't play it that loud.
Most music is designed to be played loud so you can completely sink into it. (or at least the music I like)