A Night In The Closet

[Ginger]

I wonder what Flushys take on this subject is

I wondered how long it would be before he got dragged into it...

[tantrum]

I wondered how long it would be before he got dragged into it...

what was your bet?

[Ginger]

I was going for a max of 5 posts, I'll have to remember the time of night in future lol

[tantrum]

LOL, it is late, you need to get your beauty sleep:)

[I KNOW IT]

I wonder what Flushys take on this subject is

I wondered how long it would be before he got dragged into it...

I heard they couldnt drag him out of it

[thetank]

I've been in gay clubs and had a great time.
I've been in gay clubs and had a shit time.

From what you've said, you were tired and not really in the mood. In a regular club where the music was not to your tastes, you probably would have wanted to leave too.

It's not as if you were clutching the hand of yer missus the whole time, trying to make eye contact with the entire room so that you could explain with your pupils and a sideways nod of the head that "she's with me." It's not as if every time you used the restroom you were genuinely concerned for the safety of your bottom, and it's not as if you felt violated and abused every time someone glanced in your general direction.

I'd dislike being in an R n' B club if I was tired, not really my scene. The club happens to be full of black folk, my wanting to leave doesn't make me a racist.

So unless Kylie Minogue and Tina Turner are your favourite artists normally. as Baron says, don't be too harsh.

[tantrum]

You missed out on Abba tank

[I KNOW IT]

I was joking BTW,I know Flushy wouldnt have it in him to be gay

[fergus8]

I've been in gay clubs and had a great time.
I've been in gay clubs and had a shit time.

you've been twice!!!!!

[Ginger]

I've been in gay clubs and had a great time.
I've been in gay clubs and had a shit time.

From what you've said, you were tired and not really in the mood. In a regular club where the music was not to your tastes, you probably would have wanted to leave too.

It's not as if you were clutching the hand of yer missus the whole time, trying to make eye contact with the entire room so that you could explain with your pupils and a sideways nod of the head that "she's with me." It's not as if every time you used the restroom you were genuinely concerned for the safety of your bottom, and it's not as if you felt violated and abused every time someone glanced in your general direction.

I'd dislike being in an R n' B club if I was tired, not really my scene. The club happens to be full of black folk, my wanting to leave doesn't make me a racist.

So unless Kylie Minogue and Tina Turner are your favourite artists normally. as Baron says, don't be too harsh.

Good post Tank.

Snoopy you were tired and not in the mood, chances are you would of felt the same where ever you went.

[snoopy1239]

I've been in gay clubs and had a great time.
I've been in gay clubs and had a shit time.

From what you've said, you were tired and not really in the mood. In a regular club where the music was not to your tastes, you probably would have wanted to leave too.

It's not as if you were clutching the hand of yer missus the whole time, trying to make eye contact with the entire room so that you could explain with your pupils and a sideways nod of the head that "she's with me." It's not as if every time you used the restroom you were genuinely concerned for the safety of your bottom, and it's not as if you felt violated and abused every time someone glanced in your general direction.

I'd dislike being in an R n' B club if I was tired, not really my scene. The club happens to be full of black folk, my wanting to leave doesn't make me a racist.

So unless Kylie Minogue and Tina Turner are your favourite artists normally. as Baron says, don't be too harsh.

Good post Tank.

Snoopy you were tired and not in the mood, chances are you would of felt the same where ever you went.

No, I would have been quite happy down the poker. 

[ariston]

Wouldn't beat yourself up because you felt uncomfotable, most would I would imagaine.

The witnesses when I got married the 2nd time in the Dominican Republic where 2 guys there on their honeymoon who my ex got chatting to by the pool. Both were from Blackpool and it was probably the first time I had ever socialised with someone whos lifestyle is different to mine. I didn't feel at all threatened but when we came home we met them again in Blackpool for a night out and they were with friends, one was as camp as you like and made sure I felt really uncomfortable by doing exactly what you described earlier- it doesn't mean I am a homophobe because I felt awkward, it just means this guy was being a deliberatley annoying ****. It was almost as if because I was the only straight guy there he had to make me suffer, reverse discrimination if you like. There were also lots of female couples on the night out and it wasn't as sexy as I expected- not like in the movies unfortunately.

As another poster said though if you weren't in the mood for a night out you wouldn't have enjoyed it no matter what. If you are really worried about being a homophone just ask yourself a few simple questions, are you really offended by their lifestyle choice? DO you think its wrong for them to live that way? If a friend of many years told you he was gay would you stop being his mate? would you refuse to sit and play poker with flushy for instance (when he does finally reveal gingers real name is bob)?

[ariston]

like tank I have had good nights out in gay clubs and bad nights out in gay clubs (in manchester you had to go to the gay district after 2am to carry on partying). The one thing I didnt enjoy about gay clubs is that it is even harder to pull as most women in there prefer women- last thing I need is for them to have an excuse before I've even made a fool of myself lol.

[thetank]

I've been in gay clubs and had a great time.
I've been in gay clubs and had a shit time.

you've been twice!!!!!

Been a lot more than that.

Flatmate for a year and a half was gay, went dozens of times with him and his pals. Learned that not all fag hags are munting.
Went when on a management course "for a laff", with a few straight woman attending same. Turned out to be a masterstroke, they wanted some midweek course nosh, and erm, didn't have much choice.
My cousin is gay.
Dated a silly teenager, she thought it would be funny to take me to one, so she could seem all big and clever...very good love.

Plus...I love Kylie.

[danafish]

like tank I have had good nights out in gay clubs and bad nights out in gay clubs (in manchester you had to go to the gay district after 2am to carry on partying). The one thing I didnt enjoy about gay clubs is that it is even harder to pull as most women in there prefer women- last thing I need is for them to have an excuse before I've even made a fool of myself lol.

Oh my god, I always wondered who the straight guys harassing me at Heaven were!

I would like to say a big Thank You to Smoopy for coming along to what I thought was going to be a quiet Monday night post-supper drink at a nice bar in Soho but actually turned out to be an old-fashioned authentic Jack Night Out. I have to say I had a lovely time, there was cheap Jack Daniels and lots of Jackson 5 to dance to, but I can see how the clientele could freak one out some, if one were a nice boy from Solihull. Oh, and Jen got chatted up by a transvestite called Tim.