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[ericstoner]

Sophie, you must get this out of your system, and we all should be behind her in helping her to do it.

I myself played in an STT whare HE was dealing, and he and Soph were  flirting with each other.I was plesently happy for Poppet, getting some nice attention, she seemed happy by it.(With the news about her partnership she told us later,she desererved the good time she was having) and I smiled quietly to myself that two nice young people, should be enjoying each others company.

Indeed, when I got home,I showed my daughter the pictures of BB3, including the charming liverpudlian, I had met ,who although not having much money, had a ready smile and was chatty, and funny."Seems like a real charmer" my daughter commented"

What I'm trying to say is were all duped,and some of us are older and more worldly aware.Sophie deserves our understanding, not snyde remarks, she has to live with her association with this man.......................all we have to do, is comment on it.Lets put it to bed now folks.

[kinboshi]

Sophie, you must get this out of your system, and we all should be behind her in helping her to do it.

I myself played in an STT whare HE was dealing, and he and Soph were  flirting with each other.I was plesently happy for Poppet, getting some nice attention, she seemed happy by it.(With the news about her partnership she told us later,she desererved the good time she was having) and I smiled quietly to myself that two nice young people, should be enjoying each others company.

Indeed, when I got home,I showed my daughter the pictures of BB3, including the charming liverpudlian, I had met ,who although not having much money, had a ready smile and was chatty, and funny."Seems like a real charmer" my daughter commented"

What I'm trying to say is were all duped,and some of us are older and more worldly aware.Sophie deserves our understanding, not snyde remarks, she has to live with her association with this man.......................all we have to do, is comment on it.Lets put it to bed now folks.

 

[steeley68]

hmmmm, just came back on here and have to apologise for upsetting some people which was not my intention.  My reply was to Red's post asking would you want a child molestor living in your road.  I would want them shipped as far away from me as possible which just happens in this case to be Scotland.  No offense intended to the Scots and in hindsight, considering the emotion this terrible situation has caused, I should have just said to ship them as far away as possible.  In no case would I want to see such a criminal living amongst law abiding people knowing that it is highly likely that they will commit a repeat offence.

Thanks mate.

Oh, and bolt? I'm sorry for not having a degree in the English language and I'm really sorry if you thought I was bullying the guy. All I did was type what I was thinking, and if I continue to type what I'm thinking, I may get banned.

Soooo...basically, I'm sorry for being stupid and not articulating myself properly. Parambulate - just wanted to use the word.

Sophie, none of this is your fault. You have friends here - use them.

Night night.

[bolt pp]

hmmmm, just came back on here and have to apologise for upsetting some people which was not my intention.  My reply was to Red's post asking would you want a child molestor living in your road.  I would want them shipped as far away from me as possible which just happens in this case to be Scotland.  No offense intended to the Scots and in hindsight, considering the emotion this terrible situation has caused, I should have just said to ship them as far away as possible.  In no case would I want to see such a criminal living amongst law abiding people knowing that it is highly likely that they will commit a repeat offence.

Thanks mate.

Oh, and bolt? I'm sorry for not having a degree in the English language and I'm really sorry if you thought I was bullying the guy. All I did was type what I was thinking, and if i continue to type what i'm thinking, i may get banned

Soooo...basically, I'm sorry for being stupid and not articulating myself properly. Parambulate - just wanted to use the word.

Sophie, none of this is your fault. You have friends here - use them.

Night night.

PLEASE feel free to pm me bruv, dont worry about getting banned i'm not the sort of snide that reports things to the mods.

[NEVES]

Sophie, you must get this out of your system, and we all should be behind her in helping her to do it.

I myself played in an STT whare HE was dealing, and he and Soph were  flirting with each other.I was plesently happy for Poppet, getting some nice attention, she seemed happy by it.(With the news about her partnership she told us later,she desererved the good time she was having) and I smiled quietly to myself that two nice young people, should be enjoying each others company.

         
Indeed, when I got home,I showed my daughter the pictures of BB3, including the charming liverpudlian, I had met ,who although not having much money, had a ready smile and was chatty, and funny."Seems like a real charmer" my daughter commented"

What I'm trying to say is were all duped,and some of us are older and more worldly aware.Sophie deserves our understanding, not snyde remarks, she has to live with her association with this man.......................all we have to do, is comment on it.Lets put it to bed now folks.

very 

[steeley68]

hmmmm, just came back on here and have to apologise for upsetting some people which was not my intention.  My reply was to Red's post asking would you want a child molestor living in your road.  I would want them shipped as far away from me as possible which just happens in this case to be Scotland.  No offense intended to the Scots and in hindsight, considering the emotion this terrible situation has caused, I should have just said to ship them as far away as possible.  In no case would I want to see such a criminal living amongst law abiding people knowing that it is highly likely that they will commit a repeat offence.

Thanks mate.

Oh, and bolt? I'm sorry for not having a degree in the English language and I'm really sorry if you thought I was bullying the guy. All I did was type what I was thinking, and if i continue to type what i'm thinking, i may get banned

Soooo...basically, I'm sorry for being stupid and not articulating myself properly. Parambulate - just wanted to use the word.

Sophie, none of this is your fault. You have friends here - use them.

Night night.

PLEASE feel free to pm me bruv, dont worry about getting banned i'm not the sort of snide that reports things to the mods.

I meant, I may get banned by the mods. No need to pm you buddy. Ta, anyway.

[TheJumper]

this thread could run for years

[Tractor]

29 pages in, ive read every one and not commented untill now.
Flushy, when you have children of your own it hits home hard, trust me.
Ive felt sick inside since this thread came about, yet its taken me this time to get around to posting, a respected poster on Blonde, a peodo, who would have thought it!
Sudendly life comes crashing down with a bump, we perhaps reailise how lucky some of us our, our thoughts go out to the unlucky ones.
Poppet, you have done nothing wrong in our eyes.
I just hope BB4(my first BB) is not tournished(sp) with this, and look forward to me meeting you all.

Jason  

[tikay]

This thread will fade away in it's own time, & no doubt another emotive issue wlll be along to replace it. Quite soon too, I fancy.

[suzanne]

I was kind of surprised that I hit the post button a few days ago when I made that post because apart from being crap at poker I like to keep my personal problems close to heart.

First of all I would like to say to Taxi that my heart is with you mate, I know exactly what you mean but I dont want to go into detail on here.

There has and rightly so been a lot of anger voiced on this thread about paedophiles and what should be done to them and whether they should be named and shamed.

At the time that my life was torn apart the "Megans Law" petition was going round the pubs/clubs/streets and EVERYONE was signing it... there were innocent men getting beaten up and the real paedophiles went underground.

I truely believe that to name and shame will drive these beasts out of the radar and perhaps force them to group together secretly which would be much more dangerous.

[chickie]

First off, I hope I will be forgiven on this occasion for posting anonymously.

My experience:  I suffered sexual abuse between the ages of 3 and 13 at the hands of a cousin who was five years older than me – a child himself when it began.  I do not intend to go into the details here – it would take pages and pages for me to relive all that I went through.  I spent much of my time between the ages of 11 and 13 absolutely terrified that I might be pregnant.  It ended when it did because I finally had the courage to tell him to stop.  I told no one.  When I was 17 a situation developed where, in the heat of a moment, my cousin became concerned that I was going to tell other people what had gone on, and he tried to kill (strangle) me.  Thankfully other people were present and pulled him off, but I will never forget the feeling of passing out thinking I would never come round.  I had bruises on my neck for weeks.

I am now a mother myself.

The point of this post is twofold.  A couple of people have gone against the grain in this thread saying that they support the idea of rehabilitation for sex offenders.  They have been branded ‘do-gooders’ or, rather patronisingly IMHO, been told that they would feel differently if they had children.

My personal view is that I am totally opposed to capital punishment, lynch mobs and the like.  I fully support rehabilitation, and see no reason why someone who has served a sentence, shows true remorse,  and is deemed highly unlikely to reoffend should not be given a new identity and reintegrated into society (subject to being placed on the appropriate registers).

At the time the Megan’s law petitions were going around I happened to be passing through a small village, and was asked in a local convenience shop to sign.  I said I would not as I did not agree with it, and it was almost as if everyone in that shop at the time audibly gasped and glared at me accordingly.  I was pregnant at the time and told I would feel different once my baby was born.  I don’t.

My second point is that there is evidence to suggest that the majority of sexual abuse on young children is actually carried out not by adults but, as in my case, by older children.  Perhaps this is something the parents on here calling for castration, hanging and shooting may wish to think about.  Would you still consider those apt punishments if it was discovered, god forbid, that your 10 year old son was abusing your 5 year old daughter?

There’s no black and white here, but please let’s respect everyone’s viewpoint.

[Anita]

Hi there im the mother of the kids this happend to his step children.....i had no idea there were pics of my kids on here and im horrified...a friend told me and im looking to have them removed...........this is a evil man who beat me up the whole time we were married but i had no idea he was a sick pervert and i was married and lived with him for years....so none of you were to know either.......he was not in jail for driving offenes he was in for domestic abuse so thats all been lies aswell......as for the girl he was seeing sophie wake the hell up and get rid no one would be sick enough to write and be in contact with such a horrible evil man
.................any ideas please let me know how to get rid of my kids from this site
Anita

[RED-DOG]

To the best of my knowledge Anita, all pics of your kids have been removed.

[Ginger]

Hi there im the mother of the kids this happend to his step children.....i had no idea there were pics of my kids on here and im horrified...a friend told me and im looking to have them removed...........this is a evil man who beat me up the whole time we were married but i had no idea he was a sick pervert and i was married and lived with him for years....so none of you were to know either.......he was not in jail for driving offenes he was in for domestic abuse so thats all been lies aswell......as for the girl he was seeing sophie wake the hell up and get rid no one would be sick enough to write and be in contact with such a horrible evil man
.................any ideas please let me know how to get rid of my kids from this site
Anita

Personal Message sent to you Anita.

[suzanne]

First off, I hope I will be forgiven on this occasion for posting anonymously.

My experience:  I suffered sexual abuse between the ages of 3 and 13 at the hands of a cousin who was five years older than me – a child himself when it began.  I do not intend to go into the details here – it would take pages and pages for me to relive all that I went through.  I spent much of my time between the ages of 11 and 13 absolutely terrified that I might be pregnant.  It ended when it did because I finally had the courage to tell him to stop.  I told no one.  When I was 17 a situation developed where, in the heat of a moment, my cousin became concerned that I was going to tell other people what had gone on, and he tried to kill (strangle) me.  Thankfully other people were present and pulled him off, but I will never forget the feeling of passing out thinking I would never come round.  I had bruises on my neck for weeks.

I am now a mother myself.

The point of this post is twofold.  A couple of people have gone against the grain in this thread saying that they support the idea of rehabilitation for sex offenders.  They have been branded ‘do-gooders’ or, rather patronisingly IMHO, been told that they would feel differently if they had children.

My personal view is that I am totally opposed to capital punishment, lynch mobs and the like.  I fully support rehabilitation, and see no reason why someone who has served a sentence, shows true remorse,  and is deemed highly unlikely to reoffend should not be given a new identity and reintegrated into society (subject to being placed on the appropriate registers).

At the time the Megan’s law petitions were going around I happened to be passing through a small village, and was asked in a local convenience shop to sign.  I said I would not as I did not agree with it, and it was almost as if everyone in that shop at the time audibly gasped and glared at me accordingly.  I was pregnant at the time and told I would feel different once my baby was born.  I don’t.

My second point is that there is evidence to suggest that the majority of sexual abuse on young children is actually carried out not by adults but, as in my case, by older children.  Perhaps this is something the parents on here calling for castration, hanging and shooting may wish to think about.  Would you still consider those apt punishments if it was discovered, god forbid, that your 10 year old son was abusing your 5 year old daughter?

There’s no black and white here, but please let’s respect everyone’s viewpoint.

A brave post chickie and I dont blame you for going anon... I wish I had but I got a bit caught up in the moment.

My ex went through a program (cant remember the name) and I have to say to it shook him up badly, whether it worked or not I dont know, once the trust was gone I wasn't interested in finding out, I just wanted him out of my life.

Also after he did his rehab and before the final showdown "Sarah's Law" was being pushed through which I have to admit was a lot harder to dismiss and YES I did sign a petition even though I knew that if it had went through it would have meant me having to move out of the area as the locals knew who he was.

As for rehab..in my opinion...maybe it will work for some. Drug abusers/Alcoholics/Gamblers/Smokers can be reformed and never do it again but some will lapse and it may take several attempts before they finally get there.

Sorry chickie but to put it bluntly...I dont want a reformed paedophile anywhere near my kids thinking what he could be doing to them and patting himself on the back saying im a good boy now.

One lapse is another kid abused.