I didnt wanna say anything

[ruthless1]

lol good point!!!!

Positives

I am now on a diet, and gonna get fit again as I weigh 21 stone - I have never been classed as fat as I am a tall lad with broad shoulders, but still it is alot and isn't healthy + If I do start looking for female company then I stand a better chance if I am not a Rick Waller impersonator.

On a good note - I am now coming to BB on Friday night(roughly 8pm prob), Saturday and Sunday. My ex has asked if its ok for her to have her on the sunday as they have a family birthday - so I will take a few days that week to spend some time so i dont miss out.
Its a new day, and I have a new life!!!!!


Better get back to work

Glad to see things are getting a little easier, postive thinking is the best way, even if it is heart breaking at times, i know i been there last year, after 12 years and 4 daughters i found myself alone with the kids, we never argued over when he could have the kids, i surpose i was lucky in away.
You need time alone to be yourself again and get your head sorted out, no good rushing into anything straight away, im sure you will be happy again x and as poppet said where here for ya x
chin up my son x

[Poppet7]

lol good point!!!!

Positives

I am now on a diet, and gonna get fit again as I weigh 21 stone - I have never been classed as fat as I am a tall lad with broad shoulders, but still it is alot and isn't healthy + If I do start looking for female company then I stand a better chance if I am not a Rick Waller impersonator.

On a good note - I am now coming to BB on Friday night(roughly 8pm prob), Saturday and Sunday. My ex has asked if its ok for her to have her on the sunday as they have a family birthday - so I will take a few days that week to spend some time so i dont miss out.
Its a new day, and I have a new life!!!!!


Better get back to work

So you definitely coming out for a drink (or 10) on Friday night then? x

[smithy69]

I shall be getting bolloxxxxxxedddddddd

[Indestructable]

Ahem, as the captain of your heads up team, can I remind you that alcohol at BB4 is only allowed after we win!
 

[Poppet7]

Ahem, as the captain of your heads up team, can I remind you that alcohol at BB4 is only allowed after we win!
 

He MIGHT have sobered up by then, maybe...!

[smithy69]

Drink will benefit my poker play - i am awful!!!!!!!

[londonpokergirl]

I shall be getting bolloxxxxxxedddddddd

lol i think i've been over merry at all blonde bashs   all in good fun

[redimp]

Hi Smithy

Sorry to here about your situation,nothing i can add really, the blonde's have covered most of it.

I think  a really nice thing to do,would to be set up a trust fund for Lottie,dosn't have to be alot a week say £10 due to her when she is 18/21 just a thought!

Take care now

[Rainbow]

If you're worried about her using your money for nights out why don't you agree to buy all her clothes or something like that so that you know exactly where the money is going?

My dad never paid Mum because he worried about that, and it was me and my sister that lost out in the end.

You will be ok Smithy, I'm here if you need to talk x

Hi I'm Poppets Mum and I have to agree with this, i did go off the rails and drank to excess and my ex would not give me any money for this reason, i played into his hands really giving him a good excuse but if he had paid for clothes and shoes the girls wouldn't have lost out in the end. Also try and keep the lines of communication open and children can often get dragged into things, i know your Daughter is young but things will be easier if you can remain on reasonably friendly terms.

Quality beats quantity anyday, good luck and see you at BB4