Moving on......

[Boba Fett]

Anyone interested in some cheap carrots , bananas , cucumbers etc ? : )

LMAO

Someone run a book on who it is

[Laxie]

So who's in this in the video, and where can I watch it?

Cheers

That would be me.  I was unconscious at the time as been acknowledged by the other party.  I was unaware that it was being filmed and subsequently circulated amongst a select group of people.  

Obviously respect for my privacy wasn't afforded to me and I believe this episode may be one of the other issues Tikay is referring to in his posts on this thread.

[tikay]

Hard thing to handle for Tighty, Flushy and TK. Knowing that it was going to get around to many people but not all if they didn't comment meant that a further statement would have been better from the beginning. It would have cut out people jumping to conclusions. I respect the decison that they made but it does worry me that there is a suggestion that people have access to other people's PM's and can use them at their will.

Yes, it may or may not have been the right way forward, with hindsight, I'm not sure. But it was my decision, along with Tighty. The other Mods were not party to the facts, the discussions or the decision.

As to the part I have enboldened, that is incorrect, or it as so far as I am aware. Mods, Admin, Shareholders, whoever, cannot access other Members PM's.

Even if I or we could, I'd not recommend it. It's like rifling through somone else's handbag, or wallet - you find things you wish you had not.

No Mod here has ever been able to view anyone else' PM's. If they have, tell me, give me the evidence, & they wil be down the road as soon as it's proven.

[Claw75]

pretty sickening intrusion of Kev's personal space by the person who copied his msn logs. Disgusting.

I agree, but also, not the only pretty sickening intrusion of someone's privacy that's come to light.

[GreekStein]

pretty sickening intrusion of Kev's personal space by the person who copied his msn logs. Disgusting.

I agree, but also, not the only pretty sickening intrusion of someone's privacy that's come to light.

100% agree.

[outragous76]

Tikay

Id be really interested to hear on what grounds you thought posting it, in the manner in which you did was right?

[Shogun112]

pretty sickening intrusion of Kev's personal space by the person who copied his msn logs. Disgusting.

I am not sure I agree.!  If i stumbled upon my ex-g/f little black book diary after she had left, I would want to see what it said in there, and, in it there were some written facts about a crime that had happend in the past, and, if that crime was bad enough in my opinion, I would more than likely feel the need to inform the authorities and hand the diary over to the authorities to let them deal with it.  There is not a lot of difference here, electronic conversations or little black book, they are both in writing and both hold some evidence that needs to be presented.

I say, if you dont want someone to know some bad stuff, dont put it in writing and it can't come back to haunt ya.

Who is the villain, the person who brings the information forward, or the accused?  Might be neither, but in my opinion, certainly isn't the reporter..

[booder]

Kev has just asked me to post this........................



kevin says:
 Please post the following.
 I may have got the basic timing facts wrong, it was nearly 2 years ago and I am on a lot of medication, however I am sure Brendans Son will be able to recall the converstaion we had, It may have been when he rang me to ask if he could use some of the words I had written about Brendan in his tribute thread. As to the way this has been handled, it has upset me more than anyone truly knows,  Yes I was
 negligent, and yes I was stupid, the least I feel I desrved was to make a public statement on the forum stating that I was resigning from my position as a mod and taking a break from the forum for the forseeable future, then all this unpleasantness could have been avoided. I will not react nor comment any further on this matter either on forum through a third party or on my blog. ... God bless ...
 it's been emotional.

[Josedinho]

Hard thing to handle for Tighty, Flushy and TK. Knowing that it was going to get around to many people but not all if they didn't comment meant that a further statement would have been better from the beginning. It would have cut out people jumping to conclusions. I respect the decison that they made but it does worry me that there is a suggestion that people have access to other people's PM's and can use them at their will.

Yes, it may or may not have been the right way forward, with hindsight, I'm not sure. But it was my decision, along with Tighty. The other Mods were not party to the facts, the discussions or the decision.

As to the part I have enboldened, that is incorrect, or it as so far as I am aware. Mods, Admin, Shareholders, whoever, cannot access other Members PM's.

Even if I or we could, I'd not recommend it. It's like rifling through somone else's handbag, or wallet - you find things you wish you had not.

No Mod here has ever been able to view anyone else' PM's. If they have, tell me, give me the evidence, & they wil be down the road as soon as it's proven.

That's fine. I always thought that was the case i just wanted to sure. The rest is nothing to do with me.

[Nico29]

Hard thing to handle for Tighty, Flushy and TK. Knowing that it was going to get around to many people but not all if they didn't comment meant that a further statement would have been better from the beginning. It would have cut out people jumping to conclusions. I respect the decison that they made but it does worry me that there is a suggestion that people have access to other people's PM's and can use them at their will.

Yes, it may or may not have been the right way forward, with hindsight, I'm not sure. But it was my decision, along with Tighty. The other Mods were not party to the facts, the discussions or the decision.

As to the part I have enboldened, that is incorrect, or it as so far as I am aware. Mods, Admin, Shareholders, whoever, cannot access other Members PM's.

Even if I or we could, I'd not recommend it. It's like rifling through somone else's handbag, or wallet - you find things you wish you had not.

No Mod here has ever been able to view anyone else' PM's. If they have, tell me, give me the evidence, & they wil be down the road as soon as it's proven.

Surely what kev's ex has done with the msn stuff.

[Amatay]

What an absolute joke of a thread. Sounds like what Kev did was wrong but i after reading all this bullshizz for the last 20 minutes i thought he'd killed someone or summat


lol @ the poker player from Luton who like ladies of the night to visit him armed with a selection of fruit and vegetables, the mind boggles!

[Ironside]

PM's i can confirm no mod/admin/shareholder/staff or general member can access other peoples PM's without knowledge of the persons passwords

ADMINS only can change passwords for people which i often do at there request when they can no longer access there account due to it being linked to an old email address and them losing the cookie and forget the password when doing this i always ask them to change there password as the first thing they do as anyone who has had me do this for them will confirm.

IF i or any other ADMIN changed a password of an account the person who account we had changed would know when they tried to logg in as they wouldnt be able to get in

so basiically an ADMIN but not a mod or staff could techincally access someones PM's but if this was to happen the person would know about it, and the paper trail to the ADMIN in question would be lite up in floresent lights,

[The Camel]

Watching a video of someone having sex, taken without permission, is about a million times greater invasion of privacy than an ex partner looking through your computer files.

[Dingdell]

Watching a video of someone having sex, taken without permission, is about a million times greater invasion of privacy than an ex partner looking through your computer files.

I have to say I completely agree with this. I am disgusted that, as a person who felt they contributed so much to the forum and was in a position of trust, they did nothing to report this or take any action.

[tikay]

Hard thing to handle for Tighty, Flushy and TK. Knowing that it was going to get around to many people but not all if they didn't comment meant that a further statement would have been better from the beginning. It would have cut out people jumping to conclusions. I respect the decison that they made but it does worry me that there is a suggestion that people have access to other people's PM's and can use them at their will.

Yes, it may or may not have been the right way forward, with hindsight, I'm not sure. But it was my decision, along with Tighty. The other Mods were not party to the facts, the discussions or the decision.

As to the part I have enboldened, that is incorrect, or it as so far as I am aware. Mods, Admin, Shareholders, whoever, cannot access other Members PM's.

Even if I or we could, I'd not recommend it. It's like rifling through somone else's handbag, or wallet - you find things you wish you had not.

No Mod here has ever been able to view anyone else' PM's. If they have, tell me, give me the evidence, & they wil be down the road as soon as it's proven.

Surely what kev's ex has done with the msn stuff.

Quite possibly. I was answering a question & quoted a personal opinion. It remains my opinion, though if I had a need, or good reason to investigate something, I guess I'd do whatever I needed to. But to the best of my knowledge, nobody can access other people's PM on blonde. As I said earlier, if there is evidence to the contrary, let me know, & I'll deal with the matter.