Apology to Tikay.

[TightEnd]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

[Claw75]

Jane, a few points for when you are back.

It's still not clear to me from your posts what prompted you to look for information on Kev's computer - can you clarify this? You've said that the stuff about Brendan's money was a 'niggling doubt', and I can kind of understand why you wanted to look for evidence first before taking it further.  Did you get hold of information relating to that at the same time as you copied the chat logs, or did you just decide to look for it while you were there?

It's a real stretch for me to accept that someone who was a moderator on the forum, with a facebook account and living with Kev was completely oblivious to all the stuff relating to Bainn over the past year or so.  I'll try to make that stretch and accept that at face value.  Even so, why did you not just raise your concerns with tighty and tikay and let them deal with it rather than continuing to involve yourself by contacting Bainn direct? If you thought Rich and Tikay might not have the means to contact Brendan's family (which again, is a bit of a stretch), why not just suggest to them that Bainn might be able to help them get hold of Brendan's family in case they hadn't worked it out for themselves?  Reading between the lines, the reason given for the matter having to be dealt with in such a public manner by blonde was because if it hadn't been it would have come out pubically via Bainn. 

Like others have said, I am frankly amazed given everything that has gone on in the last few weeks, the feeling among members, the fact that some of your own moderating team have expressed concerns about your continuing in the role and the fact that you have hardly spent any time here in the last couple of years in any case that you are so dead set as continuing to act as a moderator here.  I understand that it is probably a matter of principle now as you don't believe you have done anything worthy of having your modship removed, but personally I think it's a shame that you've not taken the decision to bow out gracefully in the circumstances, rather leaving a very difficult decision to be made by Tikay with input from the other moderators, the aftermath of which will be a negative effect on blonde, whatever the outcome imo.

[outragous76]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

tighty - given he was off line - can you sure the idiot who posted is fully aware of the veggies

many thanks

[Claw75]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

pretty sure it's a fruit actually

[TightPaulFolds]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

tighty - given he was off line - can you sure the idiot who posted is fully aware of the veggies

many thanks

I missed most of this. Why was Jane trying to hack Kev's PC with a courgette, wtf?

[TightEnd]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

tighty - given he was off line - can you sure the idiot who posted is fully aware of the veggies

many thanks

er, Yes

Innocent confusion on this poster's behalf but he shouldn't call you names. Hence the deletions.

[booder]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

tighty - given he was off line - can you sure the idiot who posted is fully aware of the veggies

many thanks

Yes, i think Guy desrves an apology from the aforementioned person.

[outragous76]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

tighty - given he was off line - can you sure the idiot who posted is fully aware of the veggies

many thanks

er, Yes

Innocent confusion on this poster's behalf but he shouldn't call you names. Hence the deletions.

innocent confusion

im with booder on the apology im afraid

[TightPaulFolds]

For the record (I have had to delete a few posts where people flame each ohter), the vegetables stuff (marv) does NOT refer to Laxie!

tighty - given he was off line - can you sure the idiot who posted is fully aware of the veggies

many thanks

Yes, i think Guy desrves an apology from the aforementioned person.

I think the laugh kind of made up for it, was like playing Cluedo with a really stoned person

[Murph1984]

I have apologised to outragous via pm for the mix-up,and for that only.

I naturally assumed the 2 were related seeing as they popped up at the same time,in the same thread and I wasn't corrected when first mentioning it.

[Murph1984]

Last word on it from me as I don't want to get dragged into it fully.

I think everyone needs to take a step back and look at everything objectively.

A family have gone a remarkable amount of time without receiving the funds of their deceased loved one,a woman has been sexually assaulted and yet the majority on here just keep banging on page after page about whether a moderator should be relived of her almost non-existent duties(i've only seen/heard from her on here a handfull of times since I joined)

I mean seriously?

[Claw75]

Last word on it from me as I don't want to get dragged into it fully.

I think everyone needs to take a step back and look at everything objectively.

A family have gone a remarkable amount of time without receiving the funds of their deceased loved one,a woman has been sexually assaulted and yet the majority on here just keep banging on page after page about whether a moderator should be relived of her almost non-existent duties(i've only seen/heard from her on here a handfull of times since I joined)

I mean seriously?

it's a separate issue, but related to the other, awful, stuff that happened.  Just because it is the lesser evil of the three intertwined matters doesn't mean it shouldn't be discussed.  And just because people aren't 'banging on' about the other things doesn't mean we condone them, just they have been dealt with/are being dealt with separately.

[StuartHopkin]

Personally I think the fact that this is a supposed community and many members have stated they no longer trust you or want you around here should be enough to have your modship removed.

I dare say that there are plenty of members of this "supposed community" that no longer like,trust or want around the place all the spineless,creepy little priks that watched the video of a fellow member of their community being sexually assaulted but sit back and said nothing either.

Do you advocate all of them hitting the road as well or is it just the matter of modship you have a problem with? They are fine remaining as active members of the "community" as long as they're not moderators?

Everyone on here is welcome to conduct themselves 100% as they wish away from the forum? Would you not agree.

Where as Jane has used the blonde forum as a weapon, which I feel should not be allowed.

P.s. Are you assuming I am close to the group you refer to as 'spineless, creepy little priks' ?

[Murph1984]

Personally I think the fact that this is a supposed community and many members have stated they no longer trust you or want you around here should be enough to have your modship removed.

I dare say that there are plenty of members of this "supposed community" that no longer like,trust or want around the place all the spineless,creepy little priks that watched the video of a fellow member of their community being sexually assaulted but sit back and said nothing either.

Do you advocate all of them hitting the road as well or is it just the matter of modship you have a problem with? They are fine remaining as active members of the "community" as long as they're not moderators?

Everyone on here is welcome to conduct themselves 100% as they wish away from the forum? Would you not agree.

Where as Jane has used the blonde forum as a weapon, which I feel should not be allowed.

P.s. Are you assuming I am close to the group you refer to as 'spineless, creepy little priks' ?

1. Not quite,I would hope any forum would ban members who are convicted of crimes of a certain nature.Ae you saying you would be ok with murderers,paedophiles,etc posting as members because their crimes would have been committed away from the forum?

2. I'm not sure she has has she? On the face of things she has been the least vocal of anybody throughout everything.It is one word against the other as to whether she abused her position on blonde or did any of the things on the pc she is being accused of but the other party seems unwilling to provide any proof of thse accusations,proof which as stated would be readily available.This party has also thrown their own credibilty into serious doubt after the money "mix-up",which again has not been proven to be a mix-up at all by showing the money rested in his Full Tilt account all the time,as well as some slightly convenient haziness in remembering dates after the original story did not add up.

3. No I am not.

[Josedinho]

Don't see the logic in informing Tighty about the payment issue, being told it will be sorted by Blonde but then informing somebody else.
Other than that it's one person's word against another over the accessing of private files but i'd still question whether the Mod position should be kept for bringing the place into disrepute.