Apology to Tikay.

[The Camel]

Only thing I have to say is

BAINN SHOULD BE BANNED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>GINGER SHOULD BE DEMODDED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>KEV SHOULD BE PERMA BANNED

Christ Monda, you been taking posting lessons from Sofa King?

[mondatoo]

Only thing I have to say is

BAINN SHOULD BE BANNED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>GINGER SHOULD BE DEMODDED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>KEV SHOULD BE PERMA BANNED

Christ Monda, you been taking posting lessons from Sofa King?

LOL

[celtic]

Only thing I have to say is

BAINN SHOULD BE BANNED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>GINGER SHOULD BE DEMODDED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>KEV SHOULD BE PERMA BANNED

Christ Monda, you been taking posting lessons from Sofa King?

LOL

insult to Sofa imo.

[outragous76]

Good to see Ginger came back to address those issues!

Maybe she has misplaced her spade

[mondatoo]

Only thing I have to say is

BAINN SHOULD BE BANNED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>GINGER SHOULD BE DEMODDED>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>KEV SHOULD BE PERMA BANNED

Christ Monda, you been taking posting lessons from Sofa King?

LOL

insult to Sofa imo.

Definitely  

BTW I don't think Kev should actually be banned,I'm not much cop with those arrows but my point was I think it's unfair and not right that Kev should be banned but Bainn sticks around and Ginger stays as mod.Yes Kev has done something wrong but we all make mistakes and imo for what he has giving to Blonde he should be giving a second chance.I think Bainn is a nasty evil human being and should have been banned before this all even started,I have never had any thoughts positive or negative about Jane as I guess we generally post on different parts of the forum and I've never met her at a bash,I dont wish to speculate on who's done what but for Jane's involvment in this alone I think it would be best if she wasn't a mod.

[MANTIS01]

1) If I left my stuff at a bitter ex's house I would expect her to root through it like a pig sniffing for truffles.

2) I like the added touch of Bainn as the evil pantomine character and if he posts on this thread I will boo out loud.

[celtic]

1) If I left my stuff at a bitter ex's house I would expect her to root through it like a pig sniffing for truffles.

2) I like the added touch of Bainn as the evil pantomine character and if he posts on this thread I will boo out loud.

lolololol. Mantis goes away for a couple of days and comes back in top form.

[nirvana]

1) If I left my stuff at a bitter ex's house I would expect her to root through it like a pig sniffing for truffles.

2) I like the added touch of Bainn as the evil pantomine character and if he posts on this thread I will boo out loud.

Agreed, deffo added value with the panto stuff. By the way, it's pantomime, hope you dont punch my lights out for mentioning this

[celtic]

Watch out Mantis, heeeeeeeeeeeeees behiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiind yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooou!!!

[AlrightJack]

Oh no he's not

[celtic]

Only took 16 minutes to get there. Sigh.

Still at least it's more fluent than the blondenders thread!

[Ginger]

As I said ealier, I'm not going to be drawn into a long debate but I will clear up a few points here that I though were obvious but maybe I was wrong. After this I won't be dragging this on, we all know its a he said/she said issue and mostly it's a private matter that Kev has turned into a public slanging match after I asked him to remove his stuff, this supposedly implies that I am being bitter, after 3 months free storage I feel I'm entitled to ask him to find an alternative arrangement.

It's still not clear to me from your posts what prompted you to look for information on Kev's computer - can you clarify this?

I have stated in my long post that I was informed of issues relating to Dawn's case, speak to Dawn if you want this clarifying Claire, you know I can't and won't post that info publicly.

You've said that the stuff about Brendan's money was a 'niggling doubt', and I can kind of understand why you wanted to look for evidence first before taking it further.  Did you get hold of information relating to that at the same time as you copied the chat logs, or did you just decide to look for it while you were there?

I have never said I looked for this information on the computer, but you also know this. I informed blonde, first, then confirmation from the family was sought (which might have come back as as a positive reply and would have been the end of the matter), then further information was obtained from the Cashier/Aqua/back room people.

It's a real stretch for me to accept that someone who was a moderator on the forum, with a facebook account and living with Kev was completely oblivious to all the stuff relating to Bainn over the past year or so.  I'll try to make that stretch and accept that at face value.  Even so, why did you not just raise your concerns with tighty and tikay and let them deal with it rather than continuing to involve yourself by contacting Bainn direct? If you thought Rich and Tikay might not have the means to contact Brendan's family (which again, is a bit of a stretch), why not just suggest to them that Bainn might be able to help them get hold of Brendan's family in case they hadn't worked it out for themselves?  Reading between the lines, the reason given for the matter having to be dealt with in such a public manner by blonde was because if it hadn't been it would have come out pubically via Bainn. 

Claire, I can't help that you find it a stretch, for a start you do not know Kev anywhere as well as I do and to be able to tell who he actually dislikes, dislikes only on-forum, or dislikes in real life but not on the forum would be a feat in itself for me, let alone an outsider. I'm really not sure what you expect me to answer here, sorry, I can't help you understand better.

As my last post stated, I did contact blonde BEFORE anyone else, this was no plan to 'get' Kev, how the hell would I know if it was paid or not?! - oh, don't tell me, will that be the next 'bombshell', I suppose I knew of this all the time too.....

Like others have said, I am frankly amazed given everything that has gone on in the last few weeks, the feeling among members, the fact that some of your own moderating team have expressed concerns about your continuing in the role and the fact that you have hardly spent any time here in the last couple of years in any case that you are so dead set as continuing to act as a moderator here.  I understand that it is probably a matter of principle now as you don't believe you have done anything worthy of having your modship removed, but personally I think it's a shame that you've not taken the decision to bow out gracefully in the circumstances, rather leaving a very difficult decision to be made by Tikay with input from the other moderators, the aftermath of which will be a negative effect on blonde, whatever the outcome imo.

Claire, really struggling with this now tbh. Please don't imply that I should 'do the right thing', I have done nothing wrong to start with, and 10 or 100 people trying to twist matters to show support for a friend won't change that.

That's all I want to clarify for now, I never wanted to post on this matter to start with as it was mainly a private matter that has been changed into something else. Several people asking for repetitive info is not going to change what happened, or my reply.

Oh, thank you to all of you that have sent positive messages through, I don't expect you to post publicly with the hostile feel of these threads, but the thoughts are comforting nevertheless xx

[outragous76]

As I said ealier, I'm not going to be drawn into a long debate but I will clear up a few points here that I though were obvious but maybe I was wrong. After this I won't be dragging this on, we all know its a he said/she said issue and mostly it's a private matter that Kev has turned into a public slanging match after I asked him to remove his stuff, this supposedly implies that I am being bitter, after 3 months free storage I feel I'm entitled to ask him to find an alternative arrangement.

It's still not clear to me from your posts what prompted you to look for information on Kev's computer - can you clarify this?

I have stated in my long post that I was informed of issues relating to Dawn's case, speak to Dawn if you want this clarifying Claire, you know I can't and won't post that info publicly.

You've said that the stuff about Brendan's money was a 'niggling doubt', and I can kind of understand why you wanted to look for evidence first before taking it further.  Did you get hold of information relating to that at the same time as you copied the chat logs, or did you just decide to look for it while you were there?

I have never said I looked for this information on the computer, but you also know this. I informed blonde, first, then confirmation from the family was sought (which might have come back as as a positive reply and would have been the end of the matter), then further information was obtained from the Cashier/Aqua/back room people.

It's a real stretch for me to accept that someone who was a moderator on the forum, with a facebook account and living with Kev was completely oblivious to all the stuff relating to Bainn over the past year or so.  I'll try to make that stretch and accept that at face value.  Even so, why did you not just raise your concerns with tighty and tikay and let them deal with it rather than continuing to involve yourself by contacting Bainn direct? If you thought Rich and Tikay might not have the means to contact Brendan's family (which again, is a bit of a stretch), why not just suggest to them that Bainn might be able to help them get hold of Brendan's family in case they hadn't worked it out for themselves?  Reading between the lines, the reason given for the matter having to be dealt with in such a public manner by blonde was because if it hadn't been it would have come out pubically via Bainn. 

Claire, I can't help that you find it a stretch, for a start you do not know Kev anywhere as well as I do and to be able to tell who he actually dislikes, dislikes only on-forum, or dislikes in real life but not on the forum would be a feat in itself for me, let alone an outsider. I'm really not sure what you expect me to answer here, sorry, I can't help you understand better.

As my last post stated, I did contact blonde BEFORE anyone else, this was no plan to 'get' Kev, how the hell would I know if it was paid or not?! - oh, don't tell me, will that be the next 'bombshell', I suppose I knew of this all the time too.....

Like others have said, I am frankly amazed given everything that has gone on in the last few weeks, the feeling among members, the fact that some of your own moderating team have expressed concerns about your continuing in the role and the fact that you have hardly spent any time here in the last couple of years in any case that you are so dead set as continuing to act as a moderator here.  I understand that it is probably a matter of principle now as you don't believe you have done anything worthy of having your modship removed, but personally I think it's a shame that you've not taken the decision to bow out gracefully in the circumstances, rather leaving a very difficult decision to be made by Tikay with input from the other moderators, the aftermath of which will be a negative effect on blonde, whatever the outcome imo.

Claire, really struggling with this now tbh. Please don't imply that I should 'do the right thing', I have done nothing wrong to start with, and 10 or 100 people trying to twist matters to show support for a friend won't change that.

That's all I want to clarify for now, I never wanted to post on this matter to start with as it was mainly a private matter that has been changed into something else. Several people asking for repetitive info is not going to change what happened, or my reply.

Oh, thank you to all of you that have sent positive messages through, I don't expect you to post publicly with the hostile feel of these threads, but the thoughts are comforting nevertheless xx

[  ] clarified

[ x ] more holes than a cullinder

[The Camel]

Jane, can you just answer the one question which really is key.

Did you know about the video from the day Kev saw it or not?

[Indestructable]

I keep reading these threads and struggle to understand why anyone wants to demod Jane and what it would achieve apart from making those taking Kevs side feel good about it (or is that all there is to it?).


I haven't sent a pm to Jane positive or otherwise, but some of you are bullying her and should know better.