Bench press update. Did 95kg flat 3 reps no spot and 85kg incline same today. No idea where this sudden increase in power has come from other than doing it first after a few weeks of heavy dumbbells first. Felt good and really wanted to go for 100kg for a rep but didn't have a spot so going to rest up this week and try it next week straight off the bar after a warm up set.
100% going to get that 100kg if we ever get round to a meet up although you'll probably have it before then anyway.
I'd say my 3rm is about 122.5 which translates to a current 1rm of about 135 so that gives you an idea of where you might be.
I'm helped hugely by having a good training partner so there's always a spot there when needed.
Perhaps next time instead of doing 3 reps at 95kg you just do 3 singles and go 95, 97.5 then 100? You know you've got 3 reps in you at 95 so with a break in between it should work quite nicely.
You'll know how good you're feeling at the lower weights and then that 100kg will just fly up. Once you've got through that mental barrier it'll become easy.
One thing I would say if you're going to do this is to add 1.25kg discs rather than swap out for 20kg plates. I know it looks better but unless they're calibrated plates you could end up with quite a big difference in the actual weight on the bar and when you're close to limits it could make a big difference.
Great progress though especially to think a few weeks ago you'd pretty much given up on bench altogether.