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« Reply #60 on: December 04, 2010, 04:49:35 PM »

Sofa why are you writing your posts in Iambic pentameters?


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« Reply #61 on: December 04, 2010, 04:58:01 PM »

I think it's ok to take the law into your own hands over some things. Say if somebody hurt my mrs I would readily bite their nose off. But that's if somebody hurt my mrs. Some kid wrecking a snowman doesn't seem serious enough to get anxious about. You say your daughter was upset but in reality she would be more upset to know her dad was cracking skulls with a block of wood because a troublesome teenager threw some snowballs at the house. I don't think the violent option earns much respect from anyone including your family over such a trivial matter. In fact people who say they would go ape over the snowman scandal are simply keyboard warriors. I think you win the day if you rise above the loss of the snowman.

Anyway I don't know why your daughter is upset. Who told her the snowman was wrecked? I would have told her the snowman just bowled off somewhere, prob to help Santa or whatever. Any child would believe that. Heck it's so cold at the moment I would believe that. Watching the snowman melt into the ground over a number of days would have been more upsetting for her in the long run I reckon. I always find that kinda sad myself.
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« Reply #62 on: December 04, 2010, 05:35:12 PM »

you seriously don't see what you were doing to the winos as bullying?

that'll be a no then. your moral compass really is waaaaaay off on some things
Well that comment sounds just like from someone who got or is getting bullied
Get a life we didn't kill anyone and we didn't bully anyone we had a laugh
As they also laughed also ok the got paid to fuk me




Bloody hell some people when you were being bullied was you laughing ?
Getting paid and being looked out for at the same time
When gangs of kids would throw pop over the winos and try to have their booze taken off them
Who would look out for them and tell the kids to fuk off yes us again
It sounds like you think we used to hit them etc never ever

The only people we whacked uptown was the posh twats on a day out in the city thinking they could
Throw our fruit around they were the only ones who got ko'd
Never hit a wino just had a piss about with them
They were more than fine if u call being sellotaped up in a tv box with their consent for a laugh being bullied well u don't know what bulling is

Some of u on here bonkers
Haven't any of u ever lived a bit???
Fuk I get called a bully for doing a few pranks that EVERYONE involved laughed
This site sometimes some of u need to get a bit streetwise


My bullies always said it was for a laugh aswell.
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« Reply #63 on: December 04, 2010, 05:43:41 PM »

Sofa why are you writing your posts in Iambic pentameters?
Maybe it goes back to my Shakespeare days
Iambic pentameters
Is always a great way to talk
But I'm sure you of all follis capernaseans would know this
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« Reply #64 on: December 04, 2010, 05:44:37 PM »

please clarify 'with their consent' sofa.  did they say 'yeah i'm well up for that - sounds like a laugh' or did they agree to do it because you offered them money/fags/booze whatever in return?
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« Reply #65 on: December 04, 2010, 05:56:16 PM »

please clarify 'with their consent' sofa.  did they say 'yeah i'm well up for that - sounds like a laugh' or did they agree to do it because you offered them money/fags/booze whatever in return?
I swear on my sons life
Sometimes they would just do itfor a laugh
E,g go and chase a girl with a bunch of flowers we gave them
Yeah ok they would prob do anything we said but
We were never cruel to them
Sometimes we had them helping us unload the vans etc we used to like them
In no way did we harm them ok thinking back maybe the slugging the bottle of whisky was a bit naughty but the loved it and we pissed ourselves at watching
Once we let eddy sleep in the stall as he had been ill with a cold
When I think about it we were good to them
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« Reply #66 on: December 04, 2010, 06:11:06 PM »

Im prolly gonna get flamed for this, BUT

Have you considered waiting to the kid is on his own one day, walking up to him being perfectly reasonable and nice and just asking him if he realised how upset your daughter got? And that you'd appriciate it if, whenever he was doing anything around your house he'd just bear her in mind and try not to damage her things.

I know this is a bit soft, but these kinda kids are pretty aggro and thats what they know, you respond with aggro they then RE-AGGRO back at you and he's always gonna be happier in confrontation because thats his thing. If you take him into an adult environment where aggro and fighting isn't an option and talk to him like a grown up you might find you get a bit of a reaction out of him.


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« Reply #67 on: December 04, 2010, 06:19:10 PM »

have we tried just throwing snowballs back? that's what I normally do
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« Reply #68 on: December 04, 2010, 06:22:03 PM »


In no way did we harm them ok thinking back maybe the slugging the bottle of whisky was a bit naughty but the loved it and we pissed ourselves at watching



Of course they loved it, they are alcoholics. Not exactly socially responsible of you lot though!
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« Reply #69 on: December 04, 2010, 06:29:17 PM »

enough of this. I'm off out to find a couple of junkies and see who can take the most smack before collapsing
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« Reply #70 on: December 04, 2010, 06:54:41 PM »

have u lot ever heard of 'bumfights'?

No its not the sort of porn that Hopkin jacks off to, it was a bit of a sensation in america a few yrs ago where these guys paid homeless people and crackheads etc to do anything
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« Reply #71 on: December 04, 2010, 07:46:36 PM »

I think it's ok to take the law into your own hands over some things. Say if somebody hurt my mrs I would readily bite their nose off. But that's if somebody hurt my mrs. Some kid wrecking a snowman doesn't seem serious enough to get anxious about. You say your daughter was upset but in reality she would be more upset to know her dad was cracking skulls with a block of wood because a troublesome teenager threw some snowballs at the house. I don't think the violent option earns much respect from anyone including your family over such a trivial matter. In fact people who say they would go ape over the snowman scandal are simply keyboard warriors. I think you win the day if you rise above the loss of the snowman.

Anyway I don't know why your daughter is upset. Who told her the snowman was wrecked? I would have told her the snowman just bowled off somewhere, prob to help Santa or whatever. Any child would believe that. Heck it's so cold at the moment I would believe that. Watching the snowman melt into the ground over a number of days would have been more upsetting for her in the long run I reckon. I always find that kinda sad myself.

The snowman isn't worth getting anxious about.......the group intimidation is.

My daughter was upset because she saw it had gone and burst into tears before we had chance to explain that he'd gone to help santa or whatever.

I have resisted all aggressive options because I'd rather dialogue..........and I cant scrap for toffee...........waiting for direct intimidation or actual contact to me or family before losing it.

All is quiet on the front line and long may it stay that way, however, I have an all day drinking session in town next saturday........could well be d-day.  Here's to me keeping my cool.
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« Reply #72 on: December 04, 2010, 09:34:32 PM »

have u lot ever heard of 'bumfights'?

No its not the sort of porn that Hopkin jacks off to, it was a bit of a sensation in america a few yrs ago where these guys paid homeless people and crackheads etc to do anything

Heard about it but only saw one clip of it with 2 of them fighting I think it was. Diidn't they pay them to get tattooed in one of the eps?
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« Reply #73 on: December 04, 2010, 11:58:43 PM »

The more I read, the more I'm convinced that sofaking is Fagin from Oliver Twist.
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« Reply #74 on: December 05, 2010, 12:20:26 AM »

What we crows do if our neighbours are giving us trouble,

Is flyover their house and dump onto the car roof and windscreen, just after he's washed it.

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