I may sound like a fool with this post but I genuinely don't believe he did it with any true malice. I think a desire with wanting to make money and be successful became an obsession as things weren't going as he'd planned and he let things spiral out of control as he tried to recover.
Sorry but this does make you sound like a fool,which I know you're not.
You might want to read back over all the bets,how early he went off the path and all of the dispicable "jokes" he posted and went along with,,money dumps etc etc before you start forgiving and forgetting.