Moving on......

[ACE2M]

would appear that everyone involved has made a total mess of their bit, leading to a shit storm for everyone.

Its a private enterprise and thus could be handled however the powers that be chose to.

Kev was employed by his friends who own the enterprise, kev makes mistake and gets very publicly fucked for it, orchestrated by his friends. Who needs enemies eh.

How on earth were you a very successful man in business tikay if you thought this was the best way to proceed?

GL Kev, you committed a misdemeanour and got the electric chair for it.

[turny]

aristons abusive text lmao


my abusive text to tikay- please anyone on blonde quote this before my name starts being slagged as well....." dont care what hes done that thread is a disgrace the man is clinically depressed and you could push him over the edge. if he does something stupid i hope you will be proud of yourself. i had you down as a bigger man than a drama lover tony"... that is my abusive text to him...drama lover???

[tikay]

Given the openness of the posts, I take it no legal proceedings are in process re the video?

I was told last week that the Police have opened a Formal Inquiry. I have no idea if that is true.

[NoflopsHomer]

Mods, perhaps it's time you locked the thread again.

[Geo the Sarge]

Mods, perhaps it's time you locked the thread again.

Why, because the owners are being found to not being totally upfront?

Geo

[GreekStein]

aristons abusive text lmao


my abusive text to tikay- please anyone on blonde quote this before my name starts being slagged as well....." dont care what hes done that thread is a disgrace the man is clinically depressed and you could push him over the edge. if he does something stupid i hope you will be proud of yourself. i had you down as a bigger man than a drama lover tony"... that is my abusive text to him...drama lover???

Ariston please put down your weapons!

[nirvana]

Been really thinking about this, really genuinely deeply thinking, especially as I've always liked Tikay. I've so often felt a great deal of empathy/sympathy with some of the problems he has had to deal with here given it's essentially a free service to all of us.

In some senses I feel quite forgiving to Tikay who is busy, somewhat disconnected from the forum at the mo' etc and a bit of a drama queen ( I hope we can still talk after calling you a drama queen).

However, behind Tikays original post is a back story, advice, one-eyed counsel that leads to Tikay's OP which was, I think, undeniably unnecessary - it could have been handled in so many other ways that protect the company as others have pointed out. So, I find it quite easy to forgive the OP as a mistake.

However, behind thie scenes (let Tikay take the lash) some people have acted with a level of malevolence, piety, vindictiveness etc etc that I find it hard to articulate - but I'll try - these people have acted despicably so I kinda despise them now.

[Geo the Sarge]

Been really thinking about this, really genuinely deeply thinking, especially as I've always liked Tikay. I've so often felt a great deal of empathy/sympathy with some of the problems he has had to deal with here given it's essentially a free service to all of us.

In some senses I feel quite forgiving to Tikay who is busy, somewhat disconnected from the forum at the mo' etc and a bit of a drama queen ( I hope we can still talk after calling you a drama queen).

However, behind Tikays original post is a back story, advice, one-eyed counsel that leads to Tikay's OP which was, I think, undeniably unnecessary - it could have been handled in so many other ways that protect the company as others have pointed out. So, I find it quite easy to forgive the OP as a mistake.

However, behind thie scenes (let Tikay take the lash) some people have acted with a level of malevolence, piety, vindictiveness etc etc that I find it hard to articulate - but I'll try - these people have acted despicably so I kinda despise them now.

I lolled

Geo

[AndrewT]

Kev has asked me to post this.

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Please post a final final comment for me on that thread.   I wish everyone would just stop now, lock the thread and move on, I really hate to see the place I love imploding like this. I will not be revisiting the thread.

[nirvana]

Been really thinking about this, really genuinely deeply thinking, especially as I've always liked Tikay. I've so often felt a great deal of empathy/sympathy with some of the problems he has had to deal with here given it's essentially a free service to all of us.

In some senses I feel quite forgiving to Tikay who is busy, somewhat disconnected from the forum at the mo' etc and a bit of a drama queen ( I hope we can still talk after calling you a drama queen).

However, behind Tikays original post is a back story, advice, one-eyed counsel that leads to Tikay's OP which was, I think, undeniably unnecessary - it could have been handled in so many other ways that protect the company as others have pointed out. So, I find it quite easy to forgive the OP as a mistake.

However, behind thie scenes (let Tikay take the lash) some people have acted with a level of malevolence, piety, vindictiveness etc etc that I find it hard to articulate - but I'll try - these people have acted despicably so I kinda despise them now.

I lolled

Geo

lol, oops xx

[tikay]

would appear that everyone involved has made a total mess of their bit, leading to a shit storm for everyone.

Its a private enterprise and thus could be handled however the powers that be chose to.

Kev was employed by his friends who own the enterprise, kev makes mistake and gets very publicly fucked for it, orchestrated by his friends. Who needs enemies eh.

How on earth were you a very successful man in business tikay if you thought this was the best way to proceed?

GL Kev, you committed a misdemeanour and got the electric chair for it.

I've no idea, maybe I got lucky, but I don't think I would usually claim to be "successful" anyway.

I've explained at length & several times, I did what I thought was right, but I may have been wrong, who knows?, but if I were wrong, I'm sorry, & no doubt I'll have to pay my bills, metaphorically. I've also explained several times that those complaining should try being in the spot we were in - it's a lot more complex than you seem to think. But you & me are standing in very different places. I understand why you would see it differently, & I hope you'll try to see it's different from my perspective, too.

[nirvana]

Kev has asked me to post this.

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Please post a final final comment for me on that thread.   I wish everyone would just stop now, lock the thread and move on, I really hate to see the place I love imploding like this. I will not be revisiting the thread.

The place isn't imploding and will survive this, of that there is no doubt

[The Camel]

Kev has asked me to post this.

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Please post a final final comment for me on that thread.   I wish everyone would just stop now, lock the thread and move on, I really hate to see the place I love imploding like this. I will not be revisiting the thread.

+1

Not much constructive has been posted for ages.

I hope Kev's recovery continues and wish him all the best for the future.

[Nibbles]

I've explained at length & several times, I did what I thought was right, but I may have been wrong, who knows?, but if I were wrong, I'm sorry, & no doubt I'll have to pay my bills, metaphorically.

You could, you know, pick up the phone and talk to Kev. Couldn't do any harm, like.

[AlrightJack]

It's the boy in relaedgc's signature that I feel sorry for. Did he know that someone would video an abusive act being perpetrated against him while slept then spread it all over the internet without his permission? Disgusting and blondepoker should be ashamed for allowing content like this to be republished. In fact relaedgc's should have his modship removed and get a 'life means life' perma bar, without any right to reply. In fact, has anyone called the police yet? No, I guess not, the same people who run this site are the same people who negligently failed to see the seriousness of relaedgc's actions, or realise the horrifying moral implications of their inaction. Pull the plug, blow the server, just don't video it without the server's consent!